有時候這世界也真有趣，演戲的已經落幕了，看戲的卻還盯著舞台。

所謂麻吉與否只有當事人明白，失去摯愛卻是最真實的傷痛。

很高興的是他們又有互動了！

So, his wife commited suicide. That must cause himself feel guilty and disgraceful. It it's me I would not speak out, too.

It's hard to hold on the secret. It's harder to respect other's secret. So, don't intend to invade others' private life. The boundary is learnable even in "good" friends.

Curious, jealous, competitive, mean, stabbing behind, fake friendship, disrepectful, offensive, gossipy. Meng is sinful. 

His friend hurts, Meng doesn't care. They are not at the same level. So-called 麻吉 is just an superficial emotional sign. 

看完這麻吉朋友，我也檢視自己，是否有在朋友背後說過甚麼。

身邊有幾個好友，要嘛!婚後即辭工當家庭主婦，要嘛!40多歲即提早退休，近期也有因疫情失業而不再外出工作就乾脆退休的。

讓我念得多的是一位長我一輪多的好友"唐唐"，我在人前人後均教她困難度高技巧多的中國結，有時候看她腦子轉不了彎，還會念她"恐固力"時，她都會回我"沒恐固力還需要妳教嗎?"

我們在人後也會彼此消遣對方，每回二三好友碰頭，這些叨唸成了久久聯繫的"真心情"。

經過此事，相信小孟對老顏有新的認識，周遭的朋友亦然。

朋友之間最忌諱人前人後不一致, 當面做一套, 背後又說另一套, 有失厚道.

喪妻之痛需要時間才走得出來, 周遭的親友應多包容. 

最後, 人還是需要朋友, 希望他們能如以前一樣好好相處！做個真正麻吉老友！