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幾年前的一個冬天，大概小寶七八年級的時候，有一天我提早下班，正好差不多是小寶放學的時間，此時天空開始飄起雪花，於是我將車子開到平常他下校車的地方等他．其實下車的地方離家不會太遠，雪也不是太大，走回家不是問題；問題是美國學校的課本都是精裝本，又厚又重，一天五本，小朋友的書包是又大又重，載他回家只想減輕他背書包的負擔． 我將車子熄火停在轉角，我的媽啊～這十一月天怎麼就這麼冷啊！就算我躲在車子裡，寒風還是一個勁的往骨頭裡鑽．等了五分鐘，身體開始打哆嗦，不行不行，趕快發動引擎開暖氣，可是車子沒有在動，暖風也來得不快，反而更冷． 校車終於來了，從照後鏡看到第一個下車的小寶，而他也看到我，小跑步的到我的車窗旁邊，跟我說：「媽，我想跟她們走．」我往小寶的身後望過去，此時一群女生從他的背後走過，像國慶閱兵時阿兵哥走過司令台一樣，全部對我行注目禮！我的眼神也隨著她們的移動遊移．沒禮貌，都沒叫人．「好啦，好啦！那你把書包放到車上，我幫你拿回去．」．．．眼看著她們已經走了一小段距離，我催他說：「快快～快點跟上她們！」 轉了三個小彎我到家了，不一會兒工夫，小寶也進了家門，而咱兩前後差不到兩三分鐘．小寶啊！你老媽好心去接你下課，頂著刺骨寒風，結果卻成為一個搬運書包的工人，還擔心你慢了跟別人說不到話．而就這幾分鐘，你到底可以多說到幾句話啊！不過，這個老媽我～懂！
上星期我經過小寶的書桌，看到他對著電腦螢幕傻笑，那笑容不是看到喜劇的笑、不是看到笑話的笑，而是甜甜的發自內心的微笑；唉～老媽是過來人了，這不尋常的笑，肯定有蹊蹺．於是我提高音量的逗他說：「哎喲喲～在看什麼？笑得這麼開心，交女朋友了喲～」 他很用力的回說：「沒有啦！」 我說：「我又沒有不准你交女朋友？有喜歡的人很正常啊！」 他說：「我有一個喜歡的人．」 中！一味的禁止，小孩是什麼也不會跟你說的，小寶秉性善良，一下子就被老媽套出來了． 「哦～那她喜歡你嗎？」 「我不知道！」 「那她知道你喜歡她嗎？」 「不知道！」真是個小傻瓜！ 「那她是 Chinese 嗎？」 接下來他就不回答了，做娘的要知道適可而止，這種狀況再追問下去，就什麼也別想知道了．不過，我也沒有鼓勵他，畢竟他才十幾歲，眼前還有其他重要的事情要做，將來還有大把的時間可以談戀愛呢．我要讓他知道我沒有禁止，但也不鼓勵． 今天小寶過生日，離上次我寫他的生日已經五年了．他已經從一個小孩，變成一個小生了．明天他就可以申請臨時駕照，半年後考完路考，就可以拿正式駕照了．臨時駕照的意思是，在這半年裡，他如果要開車，旁邊必須有個有駕照的大人陪伴著．那麼我就趁著這半年，盡量的要求他帶我去這兒、送我去那兒，等到拿到正式駕照，那坐在他旁邊的女性，就很難是他老媽了！哈哈．．． 對他的祝福仍然一樣，祝福他平平安安、健健康康、快快樂樂、找到一個愛他而他也愛的老婆，幸福美滿！而這最後一項最～重～要！
"Never Grow Up" Your little hand's wrapped around my finger
And it's so quiet in the world tonight Your little eyelids flutter cause you're dreaming So I tuck you in, turn on your favorite night light To you everything's funny, you got nothing to regret I'd give all I have, honey If you could stay like that Oh darling, don't you ever grow up Don't you ever grow up, just stay this little Oh darling, don't you ever grow up Don't you ever grow up, it could stay this simple I won't let nobody hurt you, won't let no one break your heart And no one will desert you Just try to never grow up, never grow up You're in the car on the way to the movies And you're mortified your mom's dropping you off At 14 there's just so much you can't do And you can't wait to move out someday and call your own shots But don't make her drop you off around the block Remember that she's getting older too And don't lose the way that you dance around in your pj's getting ready for school Oh darling, don't you ever grow up Don't you ever grow up, just stay this little Oh darling, don't you ever grow up Don't you ever grow up, it could stay this simple No one's ever burned you, nothing's ever left you scarred And even though you want to, just try to never grow up Take pictures in your mind of your childhood room Memorize what it sounded like when your dad gets home Remember the footsteps, remember the words said And all your little brother's favorite songs I just realized everything I have is someday gonna be gone So here I am in my new apartment In a big city, they just dropped me off It's so much colder that I thought it would be So I tuck myself in and turn my night light on Wish I'd never grown up I wish I'd never grown up Oh I don't wanna grow up, wish I'd never grown up I could still be little Oh I don't wanna grow up, wish I'd never grown up It could still be simple Oh darling, don't you ever grow up Don't you ever grow up, just stay this little Oh darling, don't you ever grow up Don't you ever grow up, it could stay this simple Won't let nobody hurt you Won't let no one break your heart And even though you want to, please try to never grow up Oh, don't you ever grow up Oh, never grow up, just never grow up
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