"I wanna live while I'm alive", I like this sentence in this song lyrics.
People like to say that everbody's life is different, everyone lives his/her way; nevertheless, mostly, people choose to live a meaningful life. A relative of mine, she herself has a ph.d. degree, lost her busband 2 years ago, she talks about her late husband all the times, she lives around his image. I had the urge to persuade to live her own life; but, it dawned on me that her choice must have made her happy. Hence, if she feels it is worthy living that way, no one has a say to change it. Leav e her alone, let her live following her feeling.