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| What’s perfect sexual relationship? I believe that lust, romantic feelings, and attachment would be the essential ingredients for that. When we are mature enough to know that life is no storybook, we are forced to accept husband and wife relationship without lust and romantic feelings but only attachment. But somewhere deep in our subconscious lurk romantic visions of Cinderella, or maybe Julia Roberts, we are still hope to enjoy the fairy-like love forever in our real life. But the truth is obviously that while we are dramatically savoring the bliss of lust, romantic feelings, and attachment, we are doomed to lose it in the same dramatically way. Why the lust and romantic feelings are inevitably fading away in every time relationship? It may be much more nature than true. Lust and romantic feelings are so transient that we human being have to sugar-coated the love with the most beautiful lie that there is eternal love with forever tempting lust and romantic feeling. How could it be? Definitely it can’t exist in any marriage. Dose it only exist in short-lived romance? I am wondering… What’s the best choice to enjoy love? Enjoy the lust and romantic feelings in romance or depend on the attachment on the exclusive husband and wife relationship? Life is too short to prove which one is better. It’s all about choice. But how can we enjoy the all of the three in the marriage or in any committed long-term relationship? It’s a big wisdom. Is it? |
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