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雪花飄落之前 ─ 我生命中最後的一課 瓊瑤
這堂課的導師，是瓊瑤最深愛的人。說起愛與夢，她比誰都感性多情。然而談起生死這門課，她說：「如何面對死亡，和接受死亡，是我正在學習的課程。這堂課是用我的生命和全部感情在學習，面對的是此生最摯愛的人。因為愛，才希望他善終。」
歸亞蕾朗讀瓊瑤給兒子媳婦的信
回應:孩子，那天和妳們的四姨丈聊到，子女為救老父遺命，傾家蕩產，花了千餘萬積蓄，還影響到子女財產，老人住院折磨了幾年，最終走了。也連帶談到安樂死的立法艱難的問題，難怪瓊瑤有瑞士安樂死的意願。平凡人的人生，多半有類似的看法，生命是自己的，自己似乎可以做主。瓊瑤的如此說法，沒對沒錯，但好死不如癩活，螻蟻尚且惜命，活得一天是一天，遇重大傷病能救盡量救是中國一般人的概念，概念是會因時轉變的，尤其是當人經歷到生命末期老病的痛苦，會改變而認同安樂死的必要，妳們的阿公和阿嬤的人生終期，也是經歷了重大手術，痛苦的折騰，親人無法鬥勝天命，勾能安樂死，也是盡量醫，盡量救，好在現代醫藥的麻醉止痛藥效能，化轉了苦難的遭遇。１９７６年的毛 周先後遭逢末日，但他們的命是完全不能自主的，兩人都歷經艱難的搶救，所經歷的也完全不是常人可以忍受的痛苦。之於毛 周，時光若能回到當年，也無人敢妄提安樂死。 人各有命，末日痛苦與否，各依造化，老莊哲學應該是值得強化的認知。
附錄:麥帥為子祈禱文 from:
A Fathers Prayer 〈麥克阿瑟為子祈禱文〉 Build me a son, O Lord, who will be strong enough to know when he is weak, and brave enough to face himself when he is afraid; one who will be proud and unbending in honest defeat, and humble and gentle in victory. Build me a son whose wishbone will not be where his backbone should be; a son who will know thee and that to know himself is the foundation stone of knowledge. Lead him, I pray, not in the path of ease and comfort, but under the stress and spur of difficulties and challenge. Here let him learn to stand up in the storm; here let him learn compassion for those who fail. Build me a son whose heart will be clean, whose goal will be high; a son who will master himself before he seeks to master other men; one who will learn to laugh, yet never forget how to weep; one who will reach into the future, yet never forget the past. And after all these things are his, add, I pray, enough of a sense of humor, so that he may always be serious, yet never take himself too seriously. Give him humility, so that he may always remember the simplicity of greatness, the open mind of true wisdom, the meekness of true strength. Then I, his father, will dare to whisper, "I have not lived in vain". 相關文章分享 |
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