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習近平夫人(彭麗媛)對高考分數發言，震驚整個國家教局 .....
孩子的分數，永遠不如教孩子學會感恩、學會做人重要！
孩子正確的金錢觀，家長如何培養呢？
把財富留給孩子，還不如把孩子變成財富！
所以，留給孩子千萬財產，還不如留給他這些：
(Retiredbum notes: The following is an article I read online. I am not sure whether Ms. Peng has ever said those words or not, but they are words that worth you while to read them also.)
1、孩子，
你一定要學會做飯 , 這與伺候人無關。
在愛你的人都不在身邊的時候，使你能善待自己。——（能獨立生存
1) My child, you have to learn how to cook; it has nothing to do with serving others. When the people who love you are not around, still you can treat yourself nicely.-----(to go on living when you are alone)
2、孩子，
你一定要學會開車 , 這與身份地位無關。
這樣在任何時候， 你都可以拔腿去往任何你想去的地方，不求任何人。
——（自由）
2) My child, you have to learn how to drive; it has nothing to do with your social status. You are thus at liberty to go any place you want to, without bothering others.....(freedom)
3、孩子，
你一定要上大學，正規的大學,這與學歷無關。
人生中需要經歷這幾年，無拘無束又能染上書香的生活 .（一旦走進社會，就進入了市場。）
3) My child, you have to go to college, a regular one; it has nothing to do with your academic achievement. A perfect lifetime necessitates us having several years imbued with books freely. (Once you enter into society, you are labelled with a price in market.)
4、孩子，
你知道嗎？足跡有多遠，心就有多寬, 心寬，你才會快樂。
萬一走不遠，讓書籍帶你走。
——（拓寬自己的視野，借助知識的視野。）
4) My child, do you know the breadth of you vision depends on the distance you can reach? So broaden your horizons, and you will find true happiness. In case you can't go that far, then let books take you there. (Let intellectual horizons help enlarge the vision of your own.)
5、孩子，
如果世界上僅剩兩碗水，一碗用來喝，一碗要用來洗乾淨你的臉和內
——（自尊與貧富無關。）
5) My child, if there are only two bowls of water left for you; drink from one bowl and wash your face and your underwear with the other. (Self-respect is irrelevant to rich and poor.)
6、孩子，
天塌下來都不要哭，也不要抱怨。
那樣只能讓愛你的人更心痛，恨你的人更得意。
——（平靜地承受命運，愛你的人自會關心。）
6) My child, don't cry nor complain even when the skies are tumbling down, for that will only hurt the people who love you, and make the people who hate you gloat. (Someone shall give you loving care when you calmly accept your misfortune.)
7、孩子，
就算吃醬油拌飯，也要鋪上乾淨的餐巾，優雅地坐著。
把簡陋的生活過得很講究。
——（風度與境遇無關。）
7) My child, even you have only rice served with soy sauce to eat, you have to use a clean table cloth, and sit with manners to enjoy your meal. ( Presence has nothing to do with circumstances, even a reduced one.)
8、孩子，
去遠方的時候，除了相機，記得帶上紙筆。
風景是相同的，看風景的心情永不重複。
——（徐霞客之所以是徐霞客，不是因為走的路最多）
8) My child, when you go some faraway places, remember always bring with you paper and pen, in addition to your camera. Landscapes are always the same, but they look different to each person depending on the viewer's mood. (Xu Xiake is unique, not because he's travelled more than anybody else.)
9、孩子，
一定要有屬於自己的空間，哪怕只有5平米。
它可以讓你在和愛人吵架賭氣出走的時候，不至於流落街頭，遇到壞
更重要的是，在你浮躁的時候，有個地方讓你靜下來，給自己的心一
落。——（獨立人格）
9) My Child, you must have a private space of your own, even it has only five square meters. It will let you stay away from bad guys on the street when you run away from a lovers' quarrel. More importantly, it's the place where you can calm down when you are irritable, a corner where you can set your mind at ease. (An independent ego)
10、孩子，
小時候要有見識，長大的時候要有經歷，
你才會有個精緻的人生！——（讀別人的經歷，找自己的經歷。）
10) My child, make yourself knowlegeable when you are young, and experienced when you grow up, then you will boast of a delicate life! (Read others' experiences and find your own.)
11、孩子，
無論什麼時候，都要做一個善良的人。請記住，
擁有善良，會讓你成為最受上天眷顧的人。
——（這種眷顧未必是財富與權勢。善有善報，所報者，愛也。）
11) My child, no matter what you must be a kind person. Remember this: Heaven will always smile on the people with kindness. (Heaven will not necessarily requite you with wealth and power; a requited love will count.)
12、孩子，
笑容、優雅、自信，是最大的精神財富。
擁有了他們，你就擁有了全部。
——（這就是“貴族”精神）
12) My child, smile, elegance, and confidence are most valuable spiritual wealth. Possessing them means possessing everything. (That's also what nobility means.)
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