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Retiredbum notes:
I am not an anthropologist, but I know polygamous marriage must have taken dominance in human society long before the monogamous one under Christian system and belief was prevalent. Not long ago, owning concubines was not unusual for a man, especially for a wealthy and noble man, in Chinese society. Now time has changed and the law prohibited a man from marrying more than one wife a time. I don't know if the following phenomena are the consequences to the monogamy but divorce ratio has been soaring and xiaosan(mistresses) are rampant. A male possesses more than one female(or a female has right to choose its male partner) is an animal nature. A somewhat bawdy but telltale joke likens the relation between a man and women to "how come a kettle is allowed to match with only one cup?" Human is animal, too; therefore, a man tries to have relationship with more than just a woman should be pretty natural.
Instead of sex, I think the most delicate but difficult problem a man has to deal with his wife and "extra" women is how to maintain a harmonious human relation with all of them. I have to admit that I am not capable of tackling with this kind of mission impossible, so I have to shun any chances that would trap me in that whirling vortex of emotion. But how?
Through catharsis, like I've always said. I am not a sanctimonious man but I think "書中自有顏如玉" may be the final solution to me.
妻子, 情人和红颜知己 2012年02月21日 10:14:29
很多男人这样说:
什么是妻子? 就是你愿意把积蓄交给她保管的女人。
什么是情人? 就是你偷偷摸摸地去和她约会又怕妻子撞见的女人。
什么是红颜知己? 就是你能把有些秘密说给她听却不能说给妻子听的女人。
妻子陪你过日子,情人陪你花钞票,红颜知己陪你聊聊天。
妻子不能替代情人,因为她没有情人有情调;
情人不能代替妻子,因为她没有妻子的亲情;
妻子和情人都代替不了红颜知己,那是心灵的需要。
妻子是一种约束,约束你不能随便和别的女人交往;
情人是一种补偿,补偿你想从妻子那得到却又无法得到的激情;
红颜知己就是一种点拨,点拨你心中的迷津。
妻子是一个和你没有一点血缘关系的女人,
情人是一个和你没有一点家庭关系的女人,
红颜知己是一个还没和你扯上关系的女人,
妻子占有男人,情人分享男人,而红颜知己则是塑造男人。
说的很现实…
妻子的关心像一杯白开水,有时会成为一种唠叨,
情人的关心就像在白开水里加了一勺糖,
红颜知己的关心就像工作到午夜喝一杯咖啡,越喝越提神。
最让男人受不了的是妻子的唠叨,情人的眼泪,红颜知己的误解。
最好的妻子,
如果有可能,男人都在想把红颜知己变成情人,如果再有可能,
娶一个妻子是为了怕别人说闲话,
黄金万两容易得,一生知己最难求。红颜知己就难上加难了。
珍惜拥有的,祝福离开的人
如果一个男人三者都拥有,此生足矣!
作者: 人间最美心连心 來源: 文章屋 編輯: 李春红
男人的紅顏知己 與老婆情人之不同
虹蓮
一個聰明而美麗的女人,不會去選擇做男人的情人。做情人太累,
這個世界上,男人最需要的,除了一個老婆,
通常情況下,老婆是傾訴者,而紅顏知己則是聆聽者。
做男人的紅顏知己,關鍵是掌握好“度”,
如果你是個聰明的女人,做男人的紅顏知己吧,因為,
來源:《中國青年報》 2002年9月04日 (責任編輯:張愛敬) |
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