曾經有一位女子

 

面臨

 

負債仟萬、小孩兩歲半、母親癌末、男友失蹤.....

 

卻得硬生生的獨自面對這一切

 

然而當下 , 她很快地閃過兩個念頭

 

一個就是面對 , 一個就是燒炭自殺

 

結果因為女兒實在長得太聰明可愛了

 

而母親也讓她百般不捨

 

所以她完全只想到的就是『 面 對 』

 

於是她跟時間賽跑 , 每天除了該運作的事之外

 

她只看一星期內須支付的款項

 

每天極盡所能的動腦

 

如何調配財務 , 如何買賣手邊所有的產品

 

如何將借來的錢在答應何時還人 , 且說到做到

 

若不能及時兌現 , 也一定坦誠告知另一個時間

 

並付予利息 , 因為將心比心

 

她明白沒人幫你是必須的

 

做人誠信與面對是最重要的 

 

因為誠信比什麼都重要

 

更利用這段時間能順手幫人一把就幫

 

於是她在五年內不僅還掉了仟萬的債務

 

還幫助了近十個朋友賺錢

 

分享出去近九佰萬給朋友

 

只因她明白賺錢是辛苦的

 

但若有人相信且願意支持她

 

她更樂意與好的、良善的人分享她的福份

 

因為她很清楚 , 人在做天在看

 

但也因此 , 在那段時間更讓她看清了

 

人性有許多時候 , 為了錢財 , 所展露出的醜陋面。

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有時能不能面對 , 多半是心裡面的障礙罷了

 

方法有許多種 , 若真不懂如何突破 , 有嘴巴呀

 

可找最值得信賴的人請教詢問

 

微婉謙虛的求救 , 面子不是重點 , 更無關面子的問題

 

許多事還是得化被動為主動

 

想得再多 , 都沒有行動來的真切

 

執行錯了 , 也還是可以修正的

 

但越是逃避 , 則漩渦越大

 

哭天喊地都沒用啊

 

鑽牛角尖還不如把想法

 

改變成如何救自己的方法來得實際。

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許多時候太聰明 , 還不如笨一點來的踏實

龜兔賽跑是很好的例子 , 驕傲的兔子

或是想一步登天的人 , 往往錯失良機

事情永遠不如我們所想的 或所猜的

唯有一步一步的做出結果

才是確實的基礎 , 永遠的真理 。

Sylvia Tsai   2013.03.17

( 我就是那個女子） 

 

『 Face It 』

There are often things in life that make it difficult to break free

Even feel like cant find a way

But the only way is two words

That is「 Face It 」

Actually, own know very well inside

You cant escape for a while

so you should stand up and face it

How to put the puzzle together

of course, one piece at a time

Even though the problem is a bit troublesome

the mistake is complicated

But you still have to face them one by one

there is always a way to solve the problem

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There was a woman

Facing simultaneous

Tens of thousands in debt

the child is two and a half years old

the mother was at the cancer life the end

and her boyfriend is missing...

 

But she have to face it all alone

But when , she quickly flashed two thoughts

One is to face, the other is to burn charcoal to commit suicide

But because she daughter is so smart and cute

And her mother made her reluctant give up

So she only thought of " Face it "

So she raced against time

except for the things that should work every day

She only looks at the funds that must be paid within a week

Do her best use brain idea every day

How to allocate finances

how to buy and sell all the products at hand

How to repay the borrowed money when promised

and do what it says

If she can’t cash it out in time

she must be honest and told need another time

And pay the interest, because think of others feel

She understands no one help you its should 

Honesty and face it was the most important

Because integrity is more important than anything

In addition use this time can help others as soon as possible too

So she not only paid off $500000US debts in five years

Also helped ten friends to make money

Share $300,000US with friends

Because she understands that making money is hard

But if someone believes and is willing to support her

She is more willing to share her blessings with good and kind people

Because she knows very well that people and god are watching

But because of this, it was more clear to her during that time

Human nature has many times

for the sake of money, the ugly side revealed.

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Sometimes whether you can face it or not is mostly an obstacle in your heart

There are many ways.

If you really don’t know how to break through

you have a mouth.

You can ask the most trustworthy person for advice

Slightly and modestly ask for help

face is not the point

and it has nothing to do with face issues

Many things have to be turned from passive to active

No matter how much I think about it

there is no real action will come true

The execution is wrong

it can still be corrected

But the more you escape

the bigger the vortex

Its useless to Cried grabbing

stubborn It’s better to take the idea

Change into how to save yourself to be practical

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Too clever in many cases, it’s better to be clumsy

The tortoise and the hare are a good example

the proud rabbit

Or those who want to go to the sky in one step

often miss the opportunity

Things are never as good as we thought or guessed

Only get results step by step

It is the real foundation, the eternal truth.

Sylvia Tsai 2013.03.17

( Yes . I am the woman )