感情里,总会有分分合合;生命里,总会有来来去去。 There are always break-ups and reunions in sentimental journey; and so comings and goings in life.
学会:浅浅喜欢,静静爱,深深思索,淡淡释怀。 Try to: like shallowly, love silently, think sinuously and forget slowly.
慢慢的才知道:
人这一辈子,要经得起谎言,受得起敷衍,忍得住欺骗,忘得了诺言。
爱过了,才会尝到快乐和伤心的滋味;
恨过了,才会知道珍惜和宽容。
与其让自己变得颓废,不如让自己活得更精彩。
By degree you will learn that: You have to endure others lying remarks, perfunctory attitudes, cheating acts and insincere promises throughout your entire life. Once youve loved, will you really savor the taste of joy and sadness; once youve hated, will you realize how to cherish and forgive. Instead of becoming dispirited, youd better live a more spirited life.
慢慢的才知道: 没有风的日子,云是雨的守望; 没有梦的日子,等待会荒废时光。 这个世界上,谁也不是谁的永远, 唱一曲风花雪月,吟一阕岁月静好, 烟火、流年、红尘、沧桑,浅浅遇,淡淡忘。 By degree you will learn: In windless days, clouds are waiting for rains; in the days without dreams, waiting is just a wasting of our time. In this whole wide world, nobody belongs to anybody eternally. Sing a song of romance, and recite a verse of good old days; fireworks, time, worldly concerns, and vicissitudes are all fleeting thing, which you meet by chance and then erase from your memories lightly.
慢慢的才知道: 生命于我们,只是沧海一粟, 然而,却承载了太多的情非得已。 聚散离合,痛苦欢笑,呐喊寻觅...... 因为没有人知道那个最终的谜底。 所以,我们唯一的选择,必须是:向前,笑看风,笑对雨..... By degree weve realized: Life to us is but a grain in the vast sea; however, it is the life laden with too much unwillingness. A life full of togetherness, separation, parting and reunion brings us agonies were that trying to decline and laughter that were trying to find, for no one knows the answer to all the puzzles before we reach to the final destination. So the only option for us must be: go straight forward, braving the wind and the rain with smile.
慢慢的才知道:
有些人魂牵梦萦,却只适合放在心底;
有些人波澜不惊,却适合相伴一生。
爱情,是一次命中注定的相逢,或驻足,拥抱; 或擦肩,回眸,有些走过,很淡,很轻却很疼.....
Gradually, weve realized: someone who is staying deep down in our hearts may be the one should remain there; someone who is staying beside us unnoticed may be the one of our life-time companion. Love is one of the predestined encounters in your life. You may stop to embrace it, or just pass by and stop to look it back. Sometime it hurts even it is merely an encounter, light and gentle.
慢慢的才知道: 人生,总有许多沟坎需要跨越; 岁月,总有许多遗憾需要弥补; 生命,总有许多迷茫需要领悟。 痛苦并快乐着,思索并追寻着,彩虹总在风雨后。(註:苦 為reaizuguo*所加) Gradually, weve realized: throughout our life, there must be many thresholds for us to step across; throughout our time, there must be many regrets for us to redress; through our duration, there must be many conundrums for us to solve. Agonies coexist with raptures, and thinking coexist with searching. There will be rainbows on clear skies after raining.
Gradually, weve realized: Persistence doesnt necessarily lead you to victory, and giving up something doesnt necessarily mean youre losing it. Itd rather turn around gracefully than hit the wall ostentatiously. Give yourselves some elbow rooms so as to learn how to meditate, temporize and accommodate. Sometimes, it takes not only your persistence that leads you to success, but also your presence when you are in retrospect.
慢慢的才知道: 因为有许多事不完美,所以我们才追求完美; 因为有许多时候不快乐,所以我们才渴望快乐。 生活,原本就是完美与缺憾的交响; 人生,原本就是痛苦和快乐的和声。 输掉什么,不可以输掉微笑, 舍弃什么,不可以舍弃快乐。 Gradually, weve realized: It is an imperfect world, that is why we are pursuing perfection. There are lots of unhappy moments in our lives, that is why we are craving happiness. Life is a symphony of perfection and imperfection as well as a chorus of chagrin and joy. You may lose something except your smile; you may forgo something except your happiness.
慢慢的才知道: 人在旅途,有许多错过,痛断肝肠;有许多遇见,念念不忘。 一些梦想,可能会换来一身的疲惫; 一些寻找,让它随风,未必不是轻松。 向前走,走过不属于或属于自己的风景, 学会收藏,学会遗忘,更要学会坚强。 Gradually, weve realized: in our journey of life a lot of regrets made us feel broken-hearted, and a lot of encounters kept in our memories. Some dreams may result in weariness; let go some of our pursuits, and we may find release and peace of mind. Go straight forward, passing through landscapes that may or may not belong to us. Learn to cherish what we have, and learn to forgo what we have not. More importantly, learn to be stronger ourselves.
慢慢的才知道: 真心对一个人好,不一定有回报, 而你忽略的人,可能对你最真。 很多东西,可遇而不可求; 很多东西,一生只能一次拥有。 Gradually, weve realized: Sincere love to others may turn out to be an unrequited affection, but the one you pay little concerns to may return you with true love. There are lots of things we can only get by chance, or can we possess them only once in our life.
岁月中,忘记不了的就铭记; 生命中,坚持不了的就放弃, 人生,原本就是一次历练,快乐着就是幸福的。 During lifetime, always keep those unforgettable deep in your heart, and give up those you just cant hold on. Life is an ordeal in which being happy would be the most valuable blessing.