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Being picky is not always a good attitude to pick something suitable or better. When we pick, we wish to pick the pick of something. Therefore, the attitude of " PICK" is what we should pick up gradually from the interaction of someone or something. Professional skill+ Knowledge+ intuition + trust+ mutual respect = Best choice. I trust and respect you since you are  professional in your field of work. Choices are made and trust is built under the agreement of " respect" Kick away self-centered mindset but kiss the belief of professional skill and knowledge with the mutual trust. I love the concept of 3 R"  Respect & Responsible &Reasonable." When people are respected, they tend to be more responsible under the reasonable condition.