字體：小 中 大 |
|
|
|
| 2006/01/09 08:57:46瀏覽213｜回應0｜推薦6 | |
難答！ 晨間一個清寧時段，超越俗世、心境尚未被俗事搞濁前，靜心、整肅儀容地嘗試回覆......，以下， You must forgive my direct way of communication ...since direct is apparently not your style. During my 30 years of life and training in the science and engineering world I have developed a deep habit of being precise and straightforward. However, I do know that many things in the universe are actually not precise and constant after all.( 就是說, 還是有一點點慧根的意思啦! ) Ok...now..I will try to be direct...the way I was trained and more comfortable with... What is your opinion about 男歡女愛 ? That has been the MAJOR , dominate driving force of human race. You name it; Business, Commercials, politics, consumers, Entertainment, Tv, .........if you trace back to the bottom, this world of human race is run by this force of desire 男歡女愛. Most animals do mate...but I do not observe much pleasure when they do it. They seem to be just doing it for producing a baby. I really do not know what make them do it. For human, though...it seems that we over do it on the joy. 99.9% of sexual activity are not producing any babies now. ( Unlike animals...90% of their sexual activities produce babies) Anyway....those just to throw to you some of the facts that i observe. The bottom line question, though, is NOT about the truth. It is about " What does RUYA think about 男歡女愛? Ruya, what do YOU think about 男歡女愛? ( I am NOT interested in any religion’s idea. I am NOT interested in what Budah or Dalai Lama think. I am interested in YOUR opinion.) Ruya, please forgive my directness. That is an engineer. ( Stupid...) ＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊＊ 如芽這麼說: i read through the question again and will reply it now and here...of course in Chinese again... 既然是我的想法，依舊是迂迴不明確的方式？ 如芽的特性吧？！前言導引非整理，是暖身... 如何表達，心在找出路，腦為輔， 這便是所謂科學的頭腦與宗教式的心之不同， 人間時序進入～2006年～還未曾真正為文哩， 明知身心靈的狀態與紅塵路標又進入嶄新的另一境，興奮難免， 性子依舊徐徐前行，偶爾停滯、甚而迴顧盤桓，為的是 讓心慢慢適應新的進程。 夠迂迴了吧？寫了老半天，還未點入正題呢！ 其實是享受著此時的閒適與清寧片刻～晨間尚未開工前的有如靜心時段～ 漫遊的心思。。。走走停停甚而全然放空，無思無我， 說是沒有喜怒哀樂，其實超越喜樂是歡欣， 這樣的歡欣非人的情緒，是靜定中的欣寧！ 男歡女愛？！ 這還真不好表達～我～的想法，難在 不曾嘗試行文釐清這一向為大眾所避忌的話題， 可做不要說？ 應該的，也是時候說說囉， 而切入的方式，我依然從～三位一體～來談， 那是自己人生哲理的基礎，短期難以撼動。 在此～愛、金錢、性～是三位， 愛是神性面、金錢是人性面、性則為動物面。 初次的嘗試，總是粗糙而勉力。。。 我該如何依心描繪，而行文脈絡清晰？ 明知自己的智障仍有千萬重，一層解除再一層， 非大智慧者，只有用最笨的方式，一道一道卸下， 心防一層又一層擺脫，於是 越來越輕鬆自在，可以飛翔？ 原諒我的詞拙！想要真實傳達內在尚未整理過的這一面， 有意義卻少觸及的話題，所以 迂迴、轉折、纏繞， 男歡女愛～是性，也是愛！ 因為牽涉到至少兩個靈體，於是可以複雜，也可簡單， 端視～人～之不同，而大異其趣。 一個人，已然如此難搞定，更何況是 二者啊！ 男歡女愛，如能達到水乳交融則幾近於～愛～神人的光與愛！ 如果純然動物式的交媾，那不過是～性～ 性愛～可以是超越人世、動物境的無邊向上永恆至愛。 也可以只是往下沈淪的動物性事一樁。 端視做者心？！而做者絕非單一個體，一方不足以決定整個過程與結果， 這協調共振靠的是雙方，可能是技術，也可以是藝術。 ~~to be continued ~~ some other time, got to work now... this is a challenging topic to talk about...it’s worthy to think and write it out. |
|
| ( 心情隨筆｜男女話題 ) |
