在Cheesecake Factory的戶外餐桌上﹐滿臉笑容的女兒和男友﹐圍繞在一群她從小到大的好朋友中間﹐開心地述說著她們“求婚”的過程﹐不時傳來年輕人的哈哈大笑聲....
才知道原來女兒早想嫁人了.....
回想自己生她時不也才25歲出頭﹐成了年輕又沒經驗的媽媽﹐也是像她這樣的花樣年華。
畢業後因為男友先赴美讀書。 我則因考慮到家裡的環境不許可﹐不敢有出國打算。 每次看到他寄來的信就淚眼婆娑﹐不知這段感情會往那去﹖
有一天﹐收到了信﹐我又躲在房間哭泣...突然媽媽開門進來, 坐在我床邊輕聲地對我說﹐如果妳真的想出國就去吧! 老在這哭也不是辦法..... 就這樣把我默許給他了。 出國前的結匯, 把領公教薪水的爸媽的所有積蓄都提走了! (那時台幣美金還是四十比一) 就這樣我帶著爸媽的祝福來美逐夢了。 把爸媽和弟弟們都丟在後頭。
一直覺得媽是個很勇敢又堅強的女子. 直到前年回台和她去買水果時, 才聽到媽說, 我剛去美國時, 美國蘋果正剛進口台灣﹐她每次看到蘋果就想到我﹐就不禁會掉眼淚... 唉~ 年輕的我怎知, 我是拿媽媽的眼淚來換我的眼淚呢?
第二年暑假因有機會我們臨時決定回台結婚. 在婚宴裡我真是很開心地笑著, 媽傾過身來小聲說: "新娘子, 走路細步一點, 不要笑得嘴巴張太大... " 好像我樂得把自己嫁了似的, 太不含蓄了~
"媽~ 來照相~ " 女兒叫到, 看她臉上快樂的模樣,一手挽著那將來的另一半, 另一手挽著她老爸, 趕快靠近去照相.
孩子, 爸媽祝福妳!
Butterfly kisses(蝴蝶之吻)- Bob Carlisle
youtube source:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qgZftrobqlg
There's two things I know for sure:
She was sent here from heaven and she's
daddy's little girl.
As I drop to my knees by her bed at night
She talks to Jesus and I close my eyes and
I thank god for all the joy in my life
Oh, but most of all
For butterfly kisses after bedtime prayer;
sticking little white flowers all up in her
hair; "Walk beside the pony, Daddy, it's my first ride."
"I know the cake looks funny, Daddy, but I sure tried."
In all that I've done wrong I know I must
have done something right to deserve a hug
every morning and butterfly kisses at night.
Sweet 16 today
She's looking like her mama a little more everyday
One part woman, the other part girl.
To perfume and make-up from ribbons and curls
Trying her wings out in a great big world.
But I remember
Butterfly kisses after bedtime prayer; sticking
little white flowers all up in her hair.
"You know how much I love you, Daddy, But if you
don't mind I'm only gonna kiss you on the cheek this time."
With all that I've done wrong I must have done
something right to deserve her love every morning
and butterfly kisses at night.
All the precious time
Like the wind, the years go by.
Precious butterfly.
Spread your wings and fly.
She'll change her name today.
She'll make a promise and I'll give her away.
Standing in the bride-room just staring at her.
She asked me what I'm thinking and I said "I'm not
sure-I just feel like I'm losing my baby girl."
She leaned over...gave me butterfly kisses with her mama there,
Sticking little white flowers all up in her hair
"Walk my down the aisle, Daddy-it's just about time."
"Does my wedding gown look pretty, Daddy? Daddy, don't cry!"
Oh, with all that I've done wrong I must have
done something right.
To deserve your love every morning and butterfly
kisses-I couldn't ask God for more, man this is what love is.
I know I gotta let her go, but I'll always remember
every hug in the morning and butterfly kisses.