1. Learn to accept that your loss is real. 學習去接受失去的事實。
2. Make it OK to feel the pain. 感到痛苦是正常的
3. Adjust to living without the deceased. 調整生活適應沒有逝者的生活 4. Find a safe place in your heart for your loved one, and allow yourself to move on. 把所愛的人放在心裡一個安全的地方,讓自己可以繼續生活
5. And finally, what do you do with the love that you feel? 最後,你對逝者的愛要如何處理? Remind yourself that you don't have to stop loving someone just because he or she is no longer with you. When a memory pops up, send a loving thought and know that you are loved in return. You may find comfort in this, and the strength to continue on in your journey. 記住,你並不需要停止愛你失去的人。 當回憶出現時,送出一個愛的想念,知道你也接受一個愛的回應。 從愛的想念中得到安慰,和繼續人生路程的勇氣。