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從1991的六月六, 至今的六千兩百多個日子,
從抱著你進家門, 到你生命末期
抱著你去散步的這六千兩百多個日子,
每個日子, 每一時刻, 都是無比珍貴, 永難忘懷的.

狗寶寶, 我心愛的寶貝,
再怎麼不願, 再怎麼不忍心, 流淚也要說出:
謝謝你. 謝謝你, 這六千兩百多個日子的相陪!

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May 2007
一年一度的獸醫診所行, 帶回來難以承受的檢驗報告:
疑似膀胱癌.

June 2007
連串的檢驗, 證實癌細胞, 佔去了狗寶2/3的膀胱.
小小的狗膀胱, 只剩1/3.  難怪狗寶不斷的要去尿尿.
與專科醫師討論, 三種治療方式, 決定何者較適合狗寶.
從六月一日起, 不間斷地, 每天一粒抗癌藥物.

July 2007
熱愛散步, 野外活動.
草叢裡與蜻蜓蝴蝶競走.

August 2007
好熱的天氣, 出門做客, 花前留影.

Septembe 2007
九月的沙灘驚恐之旅.

Octorber 2007
最後一次的出門遠行.
秋楓, 秋色, 好山, 好水.
還睡了帳蓬, 又享受了一次當野狗滋味.

November 2007
生是苦意是濃.
病發之前一日, 尚還生龍活虎的往前行.
它問: 你幹麻又慢下來?


第一次 Kidney failure, 無力的躺臥軟鋪, 倚在它平日的寶座旁.
從此開始, 每日去獸醫院打點滴的艱苦日子.
活動能力大受影響.
一顆要活的心, 不變的是要它的狗日子如常.

December 2007
寒冬大雪, 也要出門散步.

January 2008
病後初癒, 也要去遊玩.

Febuary 2008
第二次 kidney failure,
病發沉睡中.
這一次的發病, 將近2個星期的不吃, 讓狗寶的體重,
從最高時的58磅掉到27.8磅.
失去的體重, 沒再補回過.
流失最多的是它的肌肉與能量.

March 2008
悠閒的周末, 狗寶在林中漫步.
溫暖的陽光, 在冬天的尾巴, 分外舒爽.
鳥叫蟲鳴. 聞上一口碎木的芳香.
狗生真是好!

April 2008
湖畔的例行散步.
遇上死去的野雁, 嚇了一跳.

May 2008
第三次 kidney failure,
無力緩慢的湖邊散步.

June 2008
月中,
第四次 kidney failure.
六月底的最後一周, 不吃的狗寶, 後腿已經再也無力支撐自己的體重.
堅強的狗寶, 仍然要它例行的活動.
只好, 把狗寶放在背包, 看到適當地點, 放它下來散步.

趁狗寶休息時, 抱起我的狗寶寶坐在沙發椅上.
就是忍不住, 要多抱抱我的狗寶貝.
還能抱嗎? 還有再抱你的時光嗎?

July 2008
狗寶抗癌的終點時刻, 給我關心狗寶的朋友:
July 2, 2008

Dear Friends:

It is over. Dog passed away at , 07/01/08 .

I am trying to get used to the idea of life without him, my sweet baby for 17 years, my most faithful follower. He had been the support of my spirit and been the reason why I had to work for a living.

I spoke to him out-loud last Sunday afternoon on his daily ride. I thanked him for his 17 years' UNCONDITIONAL LOVE and accompany with me. I told him I am learning to let him go if he is ready. He was quiet but I knew he was listening. After the ride his condition went down much faster, he did not get up on his legs to walk again.

Monday morning, he was on his loveseat watching me preparing things to go for work, he did not move but he was watching. I went back and kissed him many times before I closed the door. When I got back home from work, he lay on the floor amoung pools of his bloody vomit fluit, he obviously got up and walked to the kitchen floor to vomit and could not get up again. I knew I could not delay his departure any longer, not to the day of after July 4th as planned.

Later on Monday's night, He was so quiet, did not ask any thing or activities. He did not close his eyes at all while I stayed beside him whole night. He vomited twice during the night. I knew I could not wait till Wednesday after my presentation. It had to be sooner. I called at to make appointment for .

The presentation at work was bad. I could not concentrate on what I was talking. No matter, My BabyDog was more important to me. I worked till and left the building to rush back home. Again, he lay on his own vomiting pool, this time on the carpet beside the Loveseat, he had no energy to walk to kitchen area. I held my baby to the yard for him to do his last check, neighbor came to say good-bye to him, told him he will have good friends in Heaven. I cleaned BabyDog to make his beautiful fur shinning white again. My sister and I planned to walk dog on the park one last time. It was a hot afternoon even under the shade that Dog could only stand and shaking on the ground not being able to move further. I gave him water he sipped, firm and slow. We tried to let him take time and walk a little bit more.

Seeing him waving his body and not be able to walk, at I held him up and walked across the street to the clinic. They did not say other word but "the room is prepared for you."

They gave us time to stay with dog. Holding my baby this last moment, he was very quiet and knew the meaning of all these. Finally, I held him and asked him "is this a YES? is it time? are you ready?" He had not been able to use his noise to touch my fist as an answer for a long time so he breathed a sigh to tell me yes lightly.

I knew he was ready.
I knew he wanted to go.
I knew he knew I should be OK if he is not here with me.

Therefore, I agreed to let the Viet injected the fluid and his heart stopped within 5 seconds. It was .

My Baby.
My Precious Baby.

I woke up twice last night by his usual peeing time. Walking around the house, calling for my Babydog, even though, I knew he was not here physically. My brain and my heart mixed all feelings. I am trying to take the fact into my life, but it is so hard.

He was with me every pleace whereever I went. In the kitchen, in rooms, sitting on his Loveseat, everything I did, he always paid great interest. I know him no longer waiting here for me. But, how I wish he could be here waiting when I open the door.

Please share my Love to my BabyDog and give your prayer to him to guide him to the right place in Heaven, I made him promised to reserve a place for me and wait for me there for I will joint him one day happily.

Love
NS

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1997秋末 湖邊散步留影. 此情此景, 永存回憶.

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amys
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別哭....
2008/09/03 06:54

就是怕聽見壞消息 所以都不敢來妳家 因為知道了 我會想哭.....

相信牠會在妳身邊 就像我常聞到我外婆的香水 或家犬噹噹的氣味一樣 別傷心......


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在淚眼中讀完這篇文章
2008/07/22 12:06

抱歉這陣子沒來你這裡,不知道這兩個禮拜以來,你已經歷了如此椎心之痛。

噙著眼淚讀完狗寶最後幾天的日子。我相信牠現在在那無痛楚的天堂裡,瞭解你對牠永遠的愛和記憶。

請珍重!



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Well
2008/07/15 05:24

You are so real about this.
前面還有長日子
Thinking about the long and sweet 17 years journey, it has to have its termination with sharp pain  in fact of disappearance.
Realized that losing a dog is just so traumatizing yet we let this to happen with giving ourself to start with. That's what life is all about---come and go, one generation after another.

仲夏多言已無益,教我們再不增多傷憂,誰聽。
狗不曾有罪,但人類、、、、、、







§常笑 §吃對 §嗟來 § 所以茶飯不思,因為剛從藏春路飲完渣


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請節哀
2008/07/07 10:15
請保重.

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so sorry to hear this....
2008/07/04 20:29

我或許了解這種疼痛  當初養了八年的家犬  早已經是家裡的一員

當她離開時  全家都難過的無法自己  我媽媽在多年後提起  還會流眼淚....

妳自己多保重啊!!


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狗寶好走
2008/07/04 13:38
看著這些珍貴回憶照片記憶猶新
真不相信狗寶已離我們而去
雖然心早有準備
但臨到這一刻仍舊是難捨
看到妳的報告
知道狗寶是很有尊嚴的走
也期望妳多保重
像狗寶生前希望的
沒有他陪伴的日子
妳仍舊要過的很好

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NS
2008/07/04 03:52

請自己多保重。

你一定傷心到極點了,文章裡的日期年份都打錯了……

這段時間以來讀你與狗寶一起對抗病魔的報導,雖然早已知道這一天總要發生的,然而真正發生時還是令人傷心流淚。我們當讀者的都難過,可以想見你有多麼低落。如你所說,狗寶知道你會照顧好自己的,他放心地走了。你也要做到,好好照顧自己,OK?


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難過
2008/07/03 12:03
抗癌鬥士



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So sorry to hear this
2008/07/03 11:59

狗寶就像是我們大家的 baby 一樣, 牠走了, 真是令人難過無比, 我們不會忘記牠的.

你多保重.


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