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| Why Do We Shout? 有一天一个有智慧的教授问他的学生以下的问题: "为什么人生气时说话用喊的?" One day, a professor asked his student "Why do we SHOUT instead of speaking when we are ANGRY?" 所有的学生都想了很久, 其中有一个学生说: 因为我们丧失了"冷静", 所以我们会用喊的. All the student though a while. One answered "Because we lost our cool. Tht's why we SHOUT." 教授又问 "但是为什么别人就在你旁边而已,你还是用喊的,难道不能小声的说吗? 为什么总是要用喊的?" Asked the proffessor again, "But the person is just right next to you, why can't you talk softly but have to SHOUT?" 几乎所有的学生都七嘴八舌的说了一堆, 但是没有一个答案是让教授满意的. Everyone gave their opinions but none was accepted by the professor. 最后教授解释说: "当2个人在生气的时候,心的距离是很远的, 而为了掩盖当中的距离使对方能够听见, 于是必须用喊的." Lastly the professor explained : "When we are ANGRY, our hearts drifted apart, so we instinctively have to SHOUT instead of speaking so that the other party can hear us." "但是在喊的同时人会更生气, 更生气距离就更远, 距离更远就又要喊更大声......" "But as we SHOUT, we get ANGRIER. And our hearts drifted more further apart. So we have to SHOUT even louder and louder....." 教授接着继续说: "而当2个人在相恋时会怎样呢?情况刚好相反, 不但不会用喊的,而且说话都很轻声细语,为什么?" "When we are in love, we do not shout to each other, but we whisper, Why?" "因为他们的心很接近, 心与心之间几乎没有距离, 所以相恋中的2个人通常是耳语式的说话, 但是心中的爱因而更深, 到后来根本不需要言语," "This is because our hearts and minds are very close together. We can reach to a state of communication where there is no need fo words." "只用眼神就可以传情,而那时心与心之间早已经没有所谓的距离了..." 最后教授做了一个结论 "We understand each other well enough just by exchanging look," concluded the professor. "当2个人争吵时, 不要让心的距离变远, 更不要说些让心距离更远的话, 自然的过了几天,等心的距离已经没有那么远时, 再好好的说吧!!" "Therefore, when we are arguing, DO NOT speak words that will make our hearts driftedapart.WAIT for a few days. When you feel your mind is cleared, continue the conversation/disgussion from there on." |
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