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本來在臉書上po的note，老覺得很彆扭。所以po了以後兩個小時，我又把它藏了起來。想想寧可在格子上發，也不那麼彆扭。畢竟在臉書上都是親朋好友。。而且黃臉婆漸漸發現，有些事情，愈親的人愈會想要扭轉你的想法思維。有時候，發文的人也只是純粹的分享，而親友卻把這廂"分享"當成"提問"而開始教育發文者。。這讓人感到過度的壓力。。

當然親友都是出於好意，可是就完全抹殺了某些post的原意了。所以黃臉婆在發文或是寫Comment的時候也開始小心了。

那格子就單純些。格子給了我多點的距離感而不讓我發文有所侷限 ^^

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yesterday during the dinner, my boy asked me "where do people go after died."

I don't know the answer of it; nor how to put it right at the moment.

Under the first impression, I told him "sorry, but I don't know".

However two seconds later, I realized that wasn't really what I should've told him... so then I tried to correct it:

"Baby, there's no one in the world knows where do we go afterlife. At least no one I know. what in my mind is since there's no answer of it, we have no knowledge of it, I think what we should do is, try the best you can, to focus on the life before the afterlife happens. make sure you use your life time wisely, to try to make great impact to the world. when the time comes, we will then know where do people go afterlife."

He then gave me that "Little-T" smile and said "I love you mommy~"

I love you, too. indeed. very much.