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Shall We Dance?
2008/10/04 20:43:45瀏覽846｜回應3｜推薦33

Shall We Dance?

Dear,

Do you remember the film you mentioned few months ago “ Shall We Dance”? I think it is a wonderful movie, which touched me deeply. I agree that to love is much easier than to get along well with the one you truly love, especially you don’t want to hurt the feelings of the one you deeply fall in love. Here are some wonderful lines in the film I will love to share with you.

“ Why people get married? That’s because we need a witness to our lives. There are a billion people on the planet. I mean, what does any one life really mean? But in a marriage, you’re promising to care about everything, the good things, the bad things, the terrible things, and the mundane things. All of it. All the time, everyday. You’re saying “ Your life will not go unnoticed, because I will notice it. Your life will not go unwitnessed, because I will be your witness.”

 “ The one thing I am proudest of in my whole life is that you are happy with me. If I couldn’t, if I couldn’t tell you that I was unhappy sometimes, it was because I didn’t want to risk hurting the one person I treasure most. I’m sorry. Dance with me?”

In my opinion, it’s nice, really nice to have the one you love stay with you when you are in need.

Finding the one you love who can grow old with you is one kind of happiness.

  Staying with the one you love who can cry loudly and laugh crazily with you is another kind of happiness.

Being with the one you love who can pay attention to you and notice every change in every moment of life is another happiness.

Living with the one you love who can always say “ I love you. I care for you. I am really in need of you. You make me complete. You let me feel I am somebody instead of nobody.” is certainly another happiness.

  Getting together with the one you love who can not only share your sorrow but also your laughter is another happiness.

Wish you find and stay with the one you love and be happy and lucky for good.

                                                  Helen

                                                2005,5,25


「結婚是為了要有人見證我們的人生」
we need a witness to our lives

有的時候，會覺得自己孤單存在在這個廣大的世界上。是不是消失了也無所謂！？

但是結婚了之後，有人分享你生活的一點一滴，開始參與你往後的生活。無論是高興、失意，都有人在你身旁，給你歡呼與鼓舞。

我一生中最快樂的事，就是妳和我在一起感覺很快樂，如果我不能跟妳分享某些時候的不愉快，那是因為我不願意傷害最珍惜的人！

當你發現生活一成不變的時候，是要靠自己去尋找新的感動的！
不要忘記要牽著另一半的手一起去尋找新的幸福感動喔！！

 

 

 
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跳舞不是用想的
2008/10/05 15:17
理想是很美, 但與事實可能差很遠, 只有願意親身去嚐試, 才有可能碰上理想中的人.

想跳舞, 要不要跳舞, 可以跳舞嗎? 跟他跳好嗎? 就是跟親自下去跳舞不一樣.

理想的伴侶不是想出來的, 也不是一下子就被妳碰到的, 可能需要一些時間的相處與經營, 或許還有可能發覺是否是妳理想中的人.
Happiness(s222460428) 於 2008-10-06 12:44 回覆：

Hahaha, I couldn't deny that  someone ideal or something ideal is always beautiful. And I also agree with you ---I am willing to try to meet my ideal somebody myself eagerly and actively.

Haha, "wanna dance or don't wanna dance, shall we dance, will it be dance to dance with him? " are all in my daydreams. But it is safer !! Maybe I am not strong enough!! Or maybe I still wanna live in my fairy tales with happy endings.

But I can't deny that you are right again and again. I shall try to step into the next stage--walk out from my imaginary world--and be brave to take risks to meet my ideal somebody.

You are right again. Ideal soul mate or ideal Mr. Right doesn't come from my fairy tales, he is real in the real world. All I have to do is give me a chance and give him the opportunity to get closer to each other, get to know each other more, find the middle ground to get along with each other, create our own happiness together and write our happy endings together.

I think I am ready to take risks and enjoy the adventures in the real world instead of my ideal dream world or fairy tales.  Thanks for your words of


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A marriage
2008/10/05 12:29
It is a social affair ...
Has different values in different groups...
(My opinion....)
Happiness(s222460428) 於 2008-10-06 12:33 回覆：
Wow, your life is full of colorful colors. Yeah, different values in different groups. But it seems that it is more important to find the middle ground and create win-win situations all the time all the ways.

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Yuan
2008/10/05 08:30

It's "yuan" and luck if you can find someone who you love and care for;

it's "yuan" and hard work if you can continue to love and care for that person;

it's "yuan" and great happiness if you can grow old with that person.

Hope all of you can find that person to care for and cherish.

Wish all of you good luck, happiness and peace.
Happiness(s222460428) 於 2008-10-06 12:32 回覆：
That is for sure--so be brave to meet the " Yuan", create the " Yuan", cherish the " Yuan" and be happy and creative with the " Yuan".