I  can’t  live with or without you.

「鬼店」(The Shining)裡面的酒保Lloyd對Jack說，是女人，沒有女人活不下去，可是有女人也活不下去。

人是矛盾的動物。喜歡互相折磨的動物。

張愛玲之於胡蘭成，齊克果之於瑞琴娜，芙烈達之於狄亞哥，畢卡索之於芳斯華，歐姬芙之於史蒂格利茲。甚至亦敵亦友的楚浮和高達：「沒有你不行，有你也不行。」

U2的With or without you（http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yEfSnjL0pd8）夠經典，Bono唱得忘我，聽者聽得澎湃。上網隨便看看，最多的感言是：this song let me cry.

妙的是，Bono這首像詩的歌讓每個人感動，可是每個聽者想到的人不同。有人想到已分手的女（男）友，有人想到現在的伴侶，有人想到他兒時的奶媽，還有人想到耶穌。

絕望與希望並存。只要留有最初的那分感動，讓你哭，讓你笑，想到誰，隨你。

With or without you 

See the stone set in your eyes
See the thorn twist in your side
And I wait for you

With or without you, with or without you
With or without you, with or without you
With or without you, with or without you
With or without you, with or without you

See the stone set in your eyes
See the thorn twist in your side
And I wait for you

Sleight of hand and twist of fate
On a bed of nails she makes me wait
And I wait without you

With or without you, with or without you
With or without you, with or without you

Through the storm we reach the shore
You give it all but I want more
And I'm waiting for you

With or without you, with or without you
I can't live with or without you

And you give yourself away
And you give yourself away
And you give, and you give
And you give yourself away

My hands are tied
My body bruised she's got me with
Nothing left to win
And nothing left to lose

With or without you, with or without you
With or without you, with or without you

And you give yourself away
And you give yourself away
And you give, and you give
And you give yourself away