Mr. Who & Who,
Your aricle ---Sleepless in 西雅圖 very touching , before reading your ending note, I thought it's your own story, didn't realize it's regarding your eldest sister.
As you say it's unexpectable for our life, I also had a very closed friend who was same age like me, died 5-6 years ago, who got a Ph.D as well, she didn't have to work hard as your sister. It's pretty sad, I went to her funal in Taipei and walked with her in last journey.
Thanks to sharing the most difficult feeling with us. Blessing your heart and your broher-in-law.
Probably I will write an article regarding her later on.