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觀念風暴 I 人生的是與非?
2008/10/06 19:08:46瀏覽1607|回應4|推薦58

談人論事易生是非,再者下文打字慢也缺文字功力敘訴;
因此大多只出無須探討心靈,能貼圖補拙的玩樂旅記美食。 

半生繞著地球隨著選擇與旅行遷徒,離國離家的年數已長過生我育我的島嶼鄉土;
觀念,行事,認知。。內心與每回相遇的新世界有過多少理智與情感的衝突.
一步步的行旅,一點一滴的轉移;蛻變得已非當初離鄉的稚嫩少女?

人與人之間的交集,可以是直覺(臭氣相投)式的欣賞與歡喜,
然更多的是需要時間的蘊釀。
人性何其覆雜又多層面? 無交無來往任憑單向自思,即可邊片判取? 

偶遇無知的人與事衝突,唯有不斷的自省’ 溝通’ 善解與下放。。。
否則如何善待自己寬安心際? 
沈默勝於強辯,很多的人與事經過時間的洗滌,自然會有出息

。。。。。。。。。 

前幾天在電視上觀賞了一部李安在1997年導演的舊電影: The Ice Storm http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0119349/ 

The Ice Storm  (1997) Movie Poster
It is Thanksgiving, 1973, and the climate is changing, politically and physically. As the Watergate scandal unfolds in the background, the inhabitants of New Canaan, Conneticut begin to slip into an existentialist void, where in social taboos are shattered on whims and the line between adult authority and juvenile irresponsibility is practically nonexistant. 

Focusing on two families in particular, the Hoods and the Carvers, "The Ice Storm" chronicles a brief period of rapid moral deterioration, as the characters shatter their social "roles" in pursuit of meaning and satisfaction, within an environment turned inwards on itself. As the narrative device of an "Ice Storm" builds up around them, the actions of the characters - including adultery, sexual experimentation, drug use and petty crimes - become increasingly unpredictable and impulsive. 

Once the "storm" hits, though, reality sinks in, and the severity of their situation becomes all to apparent in its bitter, and resonating aftermath.                                                                                                                                   by Samuel Kates 


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李安的名言,B取片斷載錄:

"Everywhere can be home and everywhere is not really home and you have to deal with loneliness and alienation. I'm old enough to realize that eventually you have to deal with loneliness, anyway. I'm happily married, but eventually you have to deal with yourself.  

Nothing stands still. People want to believe in something, want to hang on to something to get security and want to trust each other. But things change. Given enough time, nothing stands still. I think seeking for security and lack of security is another thing that I saw in life."
( 心情隨筆心靈 )
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雪梨情
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2008/10/09 19:34
原來妳是OBS了
Good Night. And, Good Luck!
B(bruhlmeier) 於 2008-10-09 21:13 回覆:
不僅是OBS,而且是姥姥級的。。。。

The State I was in
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2008/10/07 16:15
Ice Storm. 以前住美國東岸時,也經歷了好幾場冰風暴,全部的樹都頓時變成透明,很震撼。李安真拍出那種效果了。
B(bruhlmeier) 於 2008-10-09 04:00 回覆:
這部電影看到最後有一種無言的感動,李安處理情節真的是非常細膩!
疏離的夫妻’ 親子關係,性遊戲,青少年的好奇。。。一場暴風雪勾勒出家庭問題的癥結。。。

niki在斯里蘭卡
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了解
2008/10/07 13:52
同是異鄉故鄉人.----太多的太多,離家18年, 想念,思念家鄉的情緒卻沒少過
B(bruhlmeier) 於 2008-10-09 04:04 回覆:
每一樣選擇的背後,是機會也有不為人知的無奈。。。

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難免有些無奈
2008/10/07 10:41
一步步的行旅,一點一滴的轉移;蛻變得已非當初離鄉的稚嫩女子? 
人生何嘗不是如此? 現在的我,絕不是當年單純美善的我,
人生的歷練讓人蛻變,也讓人成熟。難免有些無奈。

人與人之間的交集,可以是直覺(臭氣相投)式的欣賞與歡喜, 
然更多的是需要時間的蘊釀。 
也許就是所謂的前世今生的緣分吧?為何有的人一見如故?
有的人,長期相處仍格格不入?再多的經營與醞釀也無法改變。

B(bruhlmeier) 於 2008-10-09 04:12 回覆:
如果我們的心夠寬容,就算天性格格不入。。。但或許可避免衝突?!
不結緣總比結惡(孽)緣好。。。