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“Silence is the gold” is my first and foremost quote in life. I used to speechless when I was a little girl. To the extreme, people thought I was a little retarded. I used to abandon myself in books than chit-chat. I used to prefer to expose myself to nature than access myself in any gossip. Fortunately to say, this tendency paved more constructive than negative road to me. Although I didn’t savor the colorful active social life, I spare my energy focusing on my families, books, and reading. Although I am not the most popular lady in the crowd, I become valuable by evading many gossip, slander, and the negative. Why I am always choosing to be speechless? For I am not confident in my expressing skill, feel deficient in knowledge and information, and feel humble for situation. I need to be speechless to protect myself from wasting in the negative and gossip. I need to be speechless to protect myself into being impeccable with my words, being a good listener, and have more time to observe, reflect, and plan. Honest to say, I dare not have too frequent and subconscious conversation with other which cause insidious and toxic gossip which is opposite to my intention to use the power of my word in the direction of truth and love.. However, I am still learning this greatest lesson: integrity Most of people around me remarks on me as the most pure, honest, good-willed and direct friend they have met What’s more, I claim myself that this should be the best legacy I left for my kids or honor for people I loved. But there are too many traps and conflict for me, and I find being hermit would be the easiest and best way to evade complaint and rumor. To be more active or not in social life is always a big question to me I need to be more mindful and vigilant to know if I am gossiping, identify the complaint from slander, and talk to the right person……… But in this "gossip keeps blue away" society, how to fight this war is always a big challenge..... |
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