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2006/01/24 09:45:14瀏覽434|回應14|推薦15
12/20/05 Tina always complains when I work late.

Complain #1: If I don't call  her to let her know when I could be home, she thinks I do not respect her.... She will give me some COLORS.

Complain #2: If I call her when she is busy, she would give me more COLORS, right away... Why couldn't I find a better time to call, at least when she is less busy?  God, how could I know whether the kids would spend one hour eating the dinner, or 10 minutes, or whether they are taking shower or bath? 

Complain #3: Plus, if I call her and tell her when I would most likely to be home, she won't be happy neither.  Because, I could never do well estimating when I would be able to get home, working with R&D and international business conference calls just always take longer than I think they would. Than I would get COLORS ^2!

Complain #4: When I get home, I would not be able to take over and care for the kids. And she is all tired taking care of the kids.  COLORS ^ 4

Now, I don't call because I know she would give me COLORS just that once, and just for that one thing...  Taking one strong COLORS attack is easier than taking multiple over hours of span...

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when NOTHING HAPPENS
2006/01/27 11:11

You might just miss your call or her COLOR ten years later, when NOTHING HAPPENS between you two.

In respect to what you said on my memo~~~The girls I know in Taiwan are smarter than my generation. They  know how to care themselves more or mind others less, either way, they are happier for sure. It takes even more effort to keep a girl like that. I think boys are poorer these days in Taiwan. They could end up nothing if they won't grow up faster.



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橘子eva
2006/01/27 07:47

Right on, 橘子eva.  I really feel the problems between my wife and me are all these little things.  We enjoy this relationship a lot.



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love love love
2006/01/27 05:30

你有想過,也許是.....

1.你長的很帥,讓她沒有安全感
2.小孩很愛爸爸的
3.其實你老婆也是小孩子

呵呵~你的煩惱小小的,可是愛好大喔!!

男生真的要會說甜言蜜語
ex 打電話給她時,馬上對她說,寶貝想不想我,都是那個誰...
 害我不能馬上打給你,寶貝是什麼事讓你急的找我咧!!


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好男人
2006/01/25 17:43

喜欢Lester说的:爱老婆是天经地义嘛。
还有渔夫庆说的:对另一半体贴可是好男人的天责喔!

其实这就是学习相处的功课,而且解决方法是因人而异的,只要有心经营,相信不难有个快乐的家庭。



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哈哈!
2006/01/25 07:58

哈哈!!  女人心海底針嘛!  有時她只是想撒撒嬌, 跟你耍個小脾氣

而已, 這時你就哄哄她, 嘴巴甜一點, 說你工作很辛苦, 又被長官罵啦

...(搏起她的同情), 但心裡心甘情願的為家裡(讓她感動到不行), 謝謝

她照顧家很愛她~~~(要記得抱抱她什麼的) 等等, 嘿嘿!! 她就甘願為

你做牛做馬啦!! 


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難伺候,還是得伺候
2006/01/25 04:52
愛老婆是天經地義嘛。

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2006/01/25 04:26

一痞天下無難事!

讓她贏一場籃球 話題不會再現,

直到下次忙碌之時......


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win-win solution
2006/01/25 01:44

This was written when I was working on the acquisition at the end of last year.  That two weeks was horrible. 

I figure out the win-win solution.  Message her on her cell phone with message: I'll be home @.....

The reasons it worked were:

1. She doesn't need to pick up the phone and would pick the messsage up when she has time.

2. I left the area after @ in blank. So, there was no commitment on when I would be home.

She liked the humor way of me doing that.  It worked out well.  After spending one Friday after in the outlet, we joked about it.  Time will solve the problem.


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Message her :P
2006/01/25 01:09
熊熊發現居然單字打錯
真是見笑了 :(

--
是否想想
他要您撥電話給他的目的是什麼呢 : )

那    是否有方法雙贏呢  ; )




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Call her, or meaage her
2006/01/24 23:52

對另一半體貼
可是好男人的天責喔  XD


 

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