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提醒自己以後千萬不要在深夜時

特別的山東饅頭(Sentimental)

要不然情緒失控 眼淚決堤後 一發不可收拾

除了徹夜難眠外

腦袋瓜還會不斷運作思考

剪不斷理還亂的思緒

放下吧

狠下心吧

雖然相信 相信讓自己永遠放不開做正確明智的決定

該是時候了

別再優柔寡斷了

也別讓人有機會用我的善良 繼續傷害我 也傷害他自己

該微笑卻態度一致的面對我 及別人不合理的要求

幫助他之前

我必須 狠下心 放下我的善良

給予最誠摯的祝福

也寄盼期待

我相信的相信

有一天會真的成為我相信的相信

別再用最爛的方式一相情願的選擇相信這是最後一次

但卻是深不見底的無底洞

用適當的方式愛一個人

別傷害他

更別傷害自己

畢竟我的善良不該是我的致命傷

( 心情隨筆心情日記 )
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Frank
You can create your own life
2008/06/22 23:03
Life has no certain or specific meaning. The meaningless life is the gift from Heaven.The meaning can be created by yourself. Is the things you do can be totally acceptted and decided by yourself? Even though you adjust your attitude to face what others hope you do , if you can't agree or feel good, it's not a good idea. Almost all of principles tells you should love others or be responsible for others, if you can't feel good or think it's correct, when you do this , this means you betray yourself. If you are IN yourself, you can find anything.
Happiness(s222460428) 於 2008-07-04 21:15 回覆:

Thanks for the last inspiring sentence--if you are IN yourself, you can find anything.

What if I am lost in myself?

Helen


Helen
In the funeral
2008/06/22 00:17

In the funeral of Carter Chambers, Edward Cole addressed a speech

Good afternoon. My name is Edward Cole. I don't know what most people say at these occasions because in all honesty, I've tried to avoid them. The simplest thing is I loved him and I miss him. Carter and I saw the world together, which is amazing when you think that only three months ago we were complete strangers. I hope that it doesn't sound selfish of me, but the last months of his life were the best months of mine. He saved my life, and he knew it before I did. I'm deeply proud that this man found it worth his while to know me. In the end, I think it's safe to say that we brought some joy to one another's lives, so one day, when I go to some final resting place, if I happen to wake up next to a certain wall with a gate, I hope that Carter's there to vouch for me and show me the ropes on the other side.

 

Edward Perryman Cole died in May. It was a Sunday in the afternoon and there wasn't a cloud in the sky. He was 81 years old. Even now, I can't claim to understand the measure of a life, but I can tell you this: I know that when he died, his eyes were closed and his heart was open, and I'm pretty sure he was happy with his final resting place because he was buried on the mountain, and that was against the law.


Helen
good quotes from the bucket list
2008/06/22 00:17

A letter to Edward

 

Dear Edward,

I've gone back and forth the last few days trying to decide whether or not I should even write this. In the end, I realized I would regret it if I didn't, so here it goes. I know the last time we saw each other, we weren't exactly hitting the sweetest notes-certain wasn't the way I wanted the trip to end. I suppose I'm responsible and for that, I'm sorry. But in all honestly, if I had the chance, I'd do it again. Virginia said I left a stranger and came back a husband; I owe that to you. There's no way I can repay you for all you've done for me, so rather than try, I'm just going to ask you to do something else for me-find the joy in your life. You once said you're not everyone. Well, that's true-you're certainly not everyone, but everyone is everyone. My pastor always says our lives are streams flowing into the same river towards whatever heaven lies in the mist beyond the falls. Find the joy in your life, Edward. My dear friend, close your eyes and let the waters take you home.

 


Helen
The bucket list
2008/06/22 00:16

It’s difficult to understand the sum of a person’s life.

Some people will tell you it’s measured by the one’s life behind.

Some believe it can be measured in faith.

Some say by love.

Other folks say life has no meaning at all.

I believe you measure yourself by the people who measured themselves by you.

Always ask yourself two questions:

Have you found joys in your life?

Have you brought joys to others’ life?


Happiness
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多愁善感
2008/06/21 22:46

親愛的朋友

很抱歉讓你擔心了。其實只是有點山東饅頭(sentimental),昨晚看了Bucket list(一路玩到掛)後開始多愁善感,想起了許多人事物,也回顧和媽媽相處互動的點滴,情緒失控的眼淚決而徹夜難眠。今天只不過想一個人靜靜整頓情緒、理清思緒,幸福的體會:眼淚帶走了我的悲傷及多愁善感,而我還是Happy Helen,嘴角總會有一抹上揚的微笑。快樂的面對負面情緒及暫時放下無法改變的人事物,自在的用我的方式學習每天更愛自己一點。謝謝你的關心,也謝謝你讓我知道:有人陪我一起真摯面對自己喜怒哀樂的情緒變化。我真的很好,也很快樂。因為我知道:負面情緒只是短暫的訪客,讓我更珍惜積極正向的情緒。Wish us sunny side up moods with a positive attitude toward negative emotions all the time. 快樂的正芳