XX,

We had a fight last night. A furious fight!
I forget my manner. The most important of all, I forget you are my son. I did not give the least respect to a decent people like most of human being. That was the worst part of my attitude toward you. I guess while fighting, in my sub-consciouse I am your father and I have all the right to say what I wanted to say.

That is not right. I had hard time to sleep almost whole night. I was thinking why I would act like that?  I raised you. I educated you. I even try to set good example like most of father do.
Yet. I forget you are also one individual completely different from me. You have your thinking favor and all the things you experienced are different from me. Then how can I expect you thinking act and even talking like me.

The point we were arguing about is not that important. Comparing the relationship of father and son, the entire topic we augured about, politics economy and the philosophy of life style meant nothing. Then you and I just could not give in to settle the differences.

I am sorry, son. I really should not have had act like that. All the years when I have time I think about you. Thinking how you are learning in the school and how you are making friends with outside world. In anther words, I care. I would give all the gifts I inherited from your traditional family. In the world, I would trade any thing with other but not the relation with my own son. This, I want you to understand.

Come back! Son. I need your forgiveness. We all have different view and we should respect that. I always remember the words your grandpa passed on to me: "If we find the conversation suck (America young expression), even half sentence is too much!" When we have different view in some topic, either you or I should stop right there and change the subject. We should avoid confrontation between father and son.

I feel much better after write this letter. Take care of your health and have a happy life!

Love!

Father