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有一次和弟弟聊天﹐他說婚姻是一個不合乎人性的制度﹐
人和人怎能數十年都維持當初結婚時的熱情﹐而沒有愛
情的婚姻已經失去了當初結婚的意義。
多年後﹐再聽這首 Lobo 的 How Can I Tell Her ﹐
很能體會歌詞的無奈。
老夫老妻圖的是舒適﹐不必矯情作做, 時刻表現自己
最美的一面.
日常瑣事互相照顧扶持﹐碰到工作不順身體有恙﹐只
有她最懂﹐不必開口就知道你想說什麼﹐一邊嘮叨仍
一邊替你煮飯洗衣。
她﹐可以算是賢妻, 真的說不出有什麼不好!
只是, 不知道為什麼, 自己就是覺得悶.
舒適就夠了嗎? 親情真的可以取代愛情嗎?
心底燃燒的熱情仍隱隱在那兒﹐那被壓抑的對愛情的
渴望並未真正死去﹐一旦遇到不該遇的人﹐一旦不刻
意去迴避﹐便會無可救藥地氾濫成災
然而﹐像一個貪玩的小男孩﹐人在外面野﹐心底仍掛
念著家裡的媽媽. 知道回去會挨罵﹐知道罵完她會傷心
難過。
多年相依為命﹐讓至親的人痛苦﹐自己也不會好過,
玩火要付出代價﹐這樣的代價不是每個人都付得起.
賢妻外遇不能兩全.
這是上帝公平的地方?
是祂給你我的試驗?
還是祂對人類開的玩笑?
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How Can I Tell Her
歌詞
She knows when I'm lonesome.
She cried when I'm sad.
She's up in the good times.
She' s down in the bad.
Whenever I'm discouraged.
She knows just what to do.
But girl, she doesn't know about you.
I can tell her my troubles.
She makes them all seem right.
I can make up excuses.
Not to hold her at night.
We can talk of tomorrow.
I'll tell her things that I want to do.
But girl, how can I tell her about you?
How can I tell her about you?
Girl, please tell me what to do.
Everything seems right whenever I'm with you.
So girl, won't you tell me.
How to tell her about you?
How can I tell her I don't miss her whenever I'm away.
How can I say it's you and I think of every single night and day.
But when is it easy telling someone we're through.
Ah girl, help me tell her about you
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