Hey,  Dear Charles

Sorry for the answer slowly.  I didn't look at you leave the messasge to me. 

Destiny is not the major factor to drive your life.  It's just a " outline "  but not a " last goal ".

Every one has their own blueprint for life.  That means when the body got meditation to have the Unity of Body and Soul.  The soul will know not to be controlled by Ego.

For human being, Yes..Just do the best to do the goal you want to get.  If it's fail.  Then..It's really enough.   

Bless you and Best wish you have a joyful Moon Festival.

Cheers,

Wendy

親愛的沐光,

我的詩常常給人有點 [ 玄] 的意境.  懂得人就會懂喔 !  沐光喜歡 Wendy的詩啊..那以後就發表囉 !  跟妳的詩比起來..Wendy還要跟妳多著墨著墨喔 !

[ 紅娘 ] 啊 ?  嗯!  我還有一個外號教 [ 鵲橋天使 ].  這也是天生的使命喔 !

不要亂配就好..不然會造孽呢 !

親愛的師姐,

哇! 您這一問..Wendy可能要另外寫一篇文章來跟您切磋跟請教 [ 怎麼放下 ]囉!

師姐講得這個案例, 就我的認知是..當我是位諮商聽眾的角色時..我所能做的就是 [陪伴] 而不是 [改變] 個案. 陪個案 [認領情緒與需求]. 再過來就是幫個案 [找回真我, 填滿內在的愛].

這需要很大的耐心與愛心陪個案慢慢走出來.  尤其在 [認領] 這階段..個案需要很大的勇氣去承認 [事實]. 有時這 [事實]是殘酷與無情的. 但是只要個案願意[認領]..就是 [魔咒] 釋放的時候了. 

這當中有一個很重要的關鑑點, 那就是對諮商師的 [信任]. 相信師姐最能體會這點.

每個靈魂都可決定自己要放或不放? 但那已不是我這諮商者可以救贖的義務與責任. 我能做的就是跳出這個框框盡力幫個案將框框拿掉. 不然, 當我陷入時..我變成爛慈悲時..等於害了個案..那也就無法再繼續幫這些個案了.

Dear 法蘭,

記得在佛化 [回溯]的那段嗎 ? 相信他對你日後的 [自我成長]有了一定的影響. 它像一把鑰匙, 開啟了你的 [尋根之旅]. 不是嗎? 相信你經歷了一段自我成長的靈性之旅後, 更能體會 [愛的真諦]是什麼了. 不要說請教我. 我們互相切磋. 因為我也一直在學習..這條路是無止盡的..直到我們..[回家]了..還是要繼續下一段旅程的.  不是嗎?

是啊 這圖是薇妮手繪的.  音樂也是她提供的

Wendy只是寫了一篇 [ 詩 ]

若沒有薇妮的圖框與音樂..

整篇詩的感覺又會不一樣喔 !

宏哥

[愛] 很難天長地久...

但卻能 [珍惜當下] 擁有的

即使曾經只有 [一分與一秒 ]

那就是 [永恆 ] 了.

靈魂是不死的...不是嗎?

查大哥,

茶要記得用電磁爐保溫喔..免得我們去了..涼了...

啊? 要節約能源..那這樣好了...我們造訪時各自帶 [ 保溫瓶 ] 泡茶囉 !

Wow, How wonderful words you left on my blog. You know the picture you posted on the UDN portrait is my daughter's favorite one. 

Yes, You are right if we are able to respect difference to each other, Love is indeed can last..That's what I want to tell all of my blogger friends..

" To Respect Every Soul's Freedom of the Will "

There is one song which is my favorite one and it seems for Twin Flames's song:  " Part of me "

When there is nothing more to say
I am walking in a silent rain
Things will never be the same

You gave me all your love
Every moment, every touch
I wonder if we'll meet again
I love you more than words can say

You will always be a part of me
Even when there's nothing
You will be the shelter in the storm
You are my angel for eternity
You will always be a part of me

When I close my eyes again
I imagine you are here
Your tender smile, your angel eyes
Like I've reached my paradise

You have always been my friend
To guide me, when I'm lost
How can I forget the time we had
Forever always in my heart

- By Jessie - Love is never far away !

子建,

因為在諮商個案中, 有太多的故事可以分享, 但也需經案主的同意才能用詩詞或散文小說式的方式, 呈現出來.   最主要的重點就是要 [ 樂活在今世, 好好創造自己美麗的未來 ]