這是喬治麥可演唱,紀念戴妃的一首歌:you have been loved,很感傷...
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黛安娜王妃贏得全世界人們的心,不只因為她那溫柔的微笑,更因為她在婚姻中所承受的身心苦楚,讓大家對她投射了深層的同情和理解。
當黛安娜以平民身分,在青春年華的二十歲嫁入皇室,幾乎是一則美麗的童話故事。然而,幾年之後,她那曾經如天使般的笑容漸漸黯淡,最後,狗仔隊一點一滴地曝光了她內心的痛苦,原來,在孤單無助的時刻,她多次用各種方法傷害自己,包括用刮鬍刀割腕、用力撞牆,甚至撞碎整個玻璃櫥櫃,用檸檬刀劃自己的身體、用拆信刀割大腿和胸部等等。她也開始出現嚴重的暴食和厭食症狀。
被英國的狗仔隊發現有自我傷害和暴食、厭食問題的黛安娜王妃,也同樣多虧了狗仔隊的報導,人們才知道黛安娜王妃其實接受過很長的治療。有一張偷拍的照片,剛好就是黛安娜正步出診所後門,而她的女精神分析師站在門口送她出門。
幾年以後,大家都看到黛安娜王妃的改變。她不再是天真無邪的小女生,而是成熟嫻靜,永遠可以真心微笑的女人。她不再在乎查理王子的婚外情,而是跟威廉、哈利兩位小王子有更多親密的互動,也開始參加有關兒童福利和反對地雷等武器的諸多公共事務,甚至也開始追求自己的愛情了。
雖然黛安娜不幸車禍身亡,但她去世以前的種種跡象都顯示,自我傷害行為不僅可以治癒,而且隨著病情的改善,個人也更成熟,心靈更提升。
其實,我覺得,黛安娜走過婚姻破滅的痛楚,努力活出自己的能量,並且善用她的正面形象,向世界付出人道關懷的溫暖;她曾經坐到了一個愛滋病患者的病床上,握住了他的手。她告訴了世界愛滋病患者需要的不是隔離,而是熱心和關愛。
對於戴妃來說,她追求的只有一個:那就是愛與被愛.
【歌詞】
You Have Been Loved
She takes the back road and the lane
Past the school that has no changed
In all this time
She thinks of when the boy was young
All the battles she had won
Just to give him life
That man
She loved that man
For all his life
But now we meet to bring him flowers
And only God knows why
For what's the use in pressing pamls
When children fade in mother's arms
It's a cruel world
We've so much to loose
And what we have to learn we rarely choose
So if it's God who took her son
He cannot be the one living in her mind
Take care my love, she said
Don't think that God is dead
Take care my love, she said
You have been loved
If I was weak, forgive me
But I was terrified
You brushed my eyes with angels wings, full of love
The kind that makes devils cry
So these days
My life has changed
And I'll be fine
But she just sits and counts the hours
Searching for her crime
So what's the use of pressing palms
If you won't keep such love from harm
It's a cruel world
You've so much to prove
And heaven helps the ones who wait for you
Well I've no daughters, I've no sons
Guess I'm the only one
Living in my life
Take care my love, he said
Don't think that God is dead
Take care my love, he said
You have been loved
Album Info
All songs written, arranged and produced
by George Michael except
"You Have Been Loved"
written by George Michael and David Austin
"Spinning The Weel"
written by George Michael and Jon Douglas
"Fastlove"
produced by George Michael and Jon Douglas