Here is the process of solving. First, calm down and relax yourself. A chaotic brain can’t think over the solution carefully. Then, analyze deeply what the major cause of problems are, and examine why you let the wrong thing happen. People usually don’t use to analyzing and inspecting their mistakes. On the contrary, they often find any kind of excuses to their mistakes and become failured people. Only by scrutinizing thoroughly the problem can make them really understand what their errors are and learn from precious experience to avoid the mistakes.

      Accepting others advice modest is one of the important step of solutions. Some people think that they are more capable than other, so lots of people are hubris and don’t received positive suggestions. In my opinion, we can’t really figure out what the main point of drawbacks are, which causes our mistakes to repeat again and again. Thus, we revise our mistakes by other’s severe suggestions and criticism.

      Everyone would make mistakes. Remember analyzing your own mistakes, finding out what causes you to make the wrong decision, and absorb other’s sincere suggestions. That will avoid making the some mistakes again, and let you approach a further step to success.