Subject: aware of your own paranoia 



An efficient boss is too capable  to communicate with his son until one day he tried  to repeat the words what his son said, all things have changed ....

See the following story:

Mr. Lee owns a 600-worker export company  in Taichung, 

He is so capable but has a  generation gap as big as the Taiwan Strait with his son.

Every time they met did not speak  more than three sentences and end up to strike the table and bang the door, eveyone become so pissed off.

That day, his son's coming home late made him so outraged. A war is around the corner, his son ceases the fire all of the sudden and suggested his father rephrase what he just said
"

"Ah?!" Lee really taken aback and stammered:"You say ... you say ...
『Too talented a father, of course, looked down on his son』? "

"No! that's not my point!"

"Hun boy! That's exact what you said?"

Son suddenly laughed out loud: "Look! From all the start,you never 

 pay attention to what i said, You wanna a better communication, why not try please rephrasing it again. "

"Hey! Who has so much time spending in rephraing the word games? You really want infuriate me!"

"Dad! try it! Otherwise this argument will never end, you re-think what I said."

Lee admitted : "I really can not remember, please say again for me."

"All right! I said,『 father was capable, in on hand, the son admires him, on the other hand, he is afraid to keep up with him.somewhat the
the pressure comes from. "

Lee sobered for the second thought and agree with his son's reasonable thought and start to understand he was too overacting

 That night, they had a wonderful chat for two hours without an argument, what they never expect before.

On the second day, he  got less sleep but still went early to the company for an important meeting to discuss the 10 million projet to purchase machinery for American or Japanese brand.


If the usual, Mr. Li will be in charge of all the decision without lisenting to other's suggestions but today  he opens his ears and heart....

"Chief Engineer, I'll repeat your points,  see if I catch what you mean: the Japanese system of machine Device is good in a short time and can't get good service later on but the price though cheaper, on the other hand, we are not good at the language , if the things go wrong , we can't get good communication with them and get less service than we expect. "

With Li's repeated command, chief engineer eyes light up gradually,  .....

Ladies and gentlemen, if we are to fight against each other , and if we are to solve the problem, it should
understand each other's ideas sincerely, then rephrase it so we can, reassured each other if we misunderstanding each other's main thought.
Look, usually, you will find, is no longer quarrel , but a positive communication.

Different  background, character arising naturally different view,

Although we are so greedy, hatred, ignorant, arrogant, and doubt that lead us to a different point of view, 

Communication between people is a very important issue,  
If we can not first wear other's  shoes, how can we really understand their feeling? 

If not aware of their own paranoia, will be blinded by their own likes and dislikes, will also hold self-righteous
The values have been dedicated to measure the external environment. (I feel this will apply to stock investment)

Meet their own standards, since the corruption of love, not up to standard, on the offensive from the heart, the heart, respectively, that is source of trouble.

Emotions are so vulnerable that can make the air around you more relaxed and ively

We must know that the happiness sharing is double faster than the burden-sharing! 
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主旨:察覺自己的偏執