a letter from Hongkong of 梁繼璋

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after reading Asian-A translation

i keep taking the relay game as follows

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Jizhang memo to the child translated by emma

Dear son:
Writing this memo to you is based on three reasons:

(A)Who knows tomorrow or accident will arrive earlier. so I'd better give you some advices earlier.
(B) I am your father and the only one to tell you that.
(C) I have gone through all the tortures. You can take my advice and save your time,.

Here are somethings you need to remember in your life:
(A) No one has the obligation to treat you well except your parents. If someone is kind to you, you maybe need to pay your raincheck later. We need to show our gratitude to all the people who are kind to me, but we also need to be alert to all the people who is in fond of you  with a evil purpose. So look carefully before you leap!

(B) no one is irreplaceable, once you love or be love by you will be gone with the wind. Just take it and let it go!

(C) Life is too short to waste today or tomorrow will never come to you.
Therefore, the sooner value life, you have more time to enjoy life, instead of hoping for longevity, it is better to enjoy here and now.

(D) Love doesn't  exist .just an instant crush of love, and this will definitely fade away with time and mood. If you bid goodbye to your so-called love, please be patient and wait a bit to let time wash slowly away.Your pain will gradually disappear. Do not over-expcet for the beauty of love, do not over-exaggerate the sadness of lost love.

(5) Although many successful people have not received a lot of education, but it does not mean you do not have to study hard to reach it.You learned that you have weapons. People can start from scratch, but not unarmed, remember!

(6) I will not ask you to support me my old age, again I will not support your rest of life,
When you grow up to be independent , my responsibility has ended. You are your boss to 
take a bus or a Benz, eating shark fin or beanthread! 

(7) You can ask youself to be faithful, but you can't ask others to be faithful. You can be kind to others. but can't ask others to be kind to you  If you can't see it through, it will bring yor perplexed.


(8) I bought a lottery for decades and i win for nothing. No tears, no gain. No free lunch in our life! 

(9) We only have once or never karma, cherish our father-son karma no matter love or not love!


Your father Liangji Zhang