有人出生後就想結婚，就知道追尋愛，有人愛人無數其實根本不知愛是什麼，愛到底是什麼呢？

韓劇裡最喜歡演的一幕戲就是，看到你讓我心好痛，所以我知道我愛上你了。

我第一次聽到愛上一個人的感覺，是讓人心痛。原來韓國人詮釋愛是這樣的。互相折磨對方的愛。 

過去我們的電視劇是說，愛上你，讓我臉紅心跳。這是含蓄的愛。 

今天老師發的講義上，有另外一種詮釋。

Love is a virus.  愛是病毒，這應該是受過傷害的愛。

老師笑說，大概是說愛要躲避，不然會像病毒一般侵犯你。 

下面是Larry Norman 的一首詩。

闡述他的愛是承諾，不是病毒。以下這首詩應該是寫給他的愛人。告訴她，他能理解她過去受的情傷，致她無法相信他的愛。他告訴她，他的愛不是病毒。他愛她，不論她是貧是富。然後告訴她許多愛的真諦。希望讓她重拾對愛的信心，接受他的愛。他說就算他們的看法始終無法一致，但他願用他全部的生命(用盡全力)去愛她。

他說愛不是擺在花瓶裡的鮮花，不是迷惑在美麗的絲綢緞帶裡。愛是面對面的一個承諾與約束。

Love Is A Commitment 愛是承諾

Larry Norman
From the album Stranded In Babylon, © 1991

I am on the left side you are on the right
Even if we both disagree I'm gonna love you with all my might

Love is not a ballad on the top ten chart
Love is not a virus from cupid's dart
Love is not a promise that you tear apart
Love is a commitment heart to heart

Maybe you feel impoverished but true love can abound
Why don't we expand our love and knock these four walls down

Love is not a matter of time and space
Love is not a flower in a golden vase
Love is not a fantasy in silk and lace
Love is a commitment face to face

I know that you've been hurt before, it's sad to comprehend
But baby I love you rich or poor so don't think this is the end

Love is not a fire like a burning coal
Love is not a high that you can't control
Love is not a moon and a midnight stroll
Love is a commitment soul to soul

Love can be a blessing or full of strife
Love burns like a kiss cuts like a knife
Love goes far beyond a man and wife
Love is a commitment life to life

Oooh love
Mmm love
I'm talking 'bout love baby
Love
I'm talking 'bout love
Woah love
I'm talking 'bout love

還有那些對愛的詮釋？網路上五花八門真不少。 

"Love is like war: Easy to begin but hard to end."  愛像戰爭，開始容易結束困難。 

這句話很恐怖噢，François, duc de La Rochefoucauld  說: True love is like ghosts, which everyone talks about and few have seen.他說真愛像鬼，因為每個人想它卻很少人能得到它。 

Love is Like a Heat Wave.  愛像熱浪。

Love is like wildflowers; It's often found in the most unlikely places. 愛像野花，因為常出奇不易的被發現。 

My Love is Like A Red Red Rose. 這個人的愛是一朵超級鮮紅玫瑰。

Love is like the moon, when it does not increase, it decreases.愛像月亮，有陰晴圓缺。

Conditional love is like a business. 有條件的愛像商業(買賣，以物換愛)。

The conditional love is like an imprisonment. Two persons who don't like each other are holding each other in imprisonment. It is a strange thing. 有條件的愛像兩個不愛的人受到婚約束縛而關押在一起。 

後記：每個人對愛看法不同，視他的遭遇而定。如同每個人有不同的人生故事。

真愛是不需說抱歉，有條件的愛是一百個道歉也枉然。