Generally speaking, there are three rites of passage in one’s life, that is to say marriage, birth, and purchase a house. Now I am going to talk about marriage. Compared to the past, people nowadays who tie the knot are at a more mature age. It is said that, “marriage is the graveyard of love”. I can’t agree it anymore. After being marriage, plenty of difficulties will come out and you’ll probably sink in there are so many household affairs that you need to be apprehensive about. Maybe your mate will have you on a ball and chain or maybe you can’t hang out with your friends for a night out. All of above perspectives may slightly too pessimistic for someone, but it also can reveal a little hints why people at present are afraid of marriage. Getting cold feet not willing to pop the question and make commitments, even during a long time relationship, you need to face the music the environments you may confront of in the future and mesh with existing practices as soon as possible.