Mighty Fine Advice 強而有力的忠告  Anthony Robbins ↑

There's some mighty fine advice in these words, even if you're not superstitious.

This Lotus Touts has been sent to you for good luck from the Anthony Robbins reorganization.

It has been sent around the world ten times so far.

ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

1.      當你願意助人，或身邊有人需要幫助的時候，請懷著歡喜雀躍的心，就能給出超越人所期待的幫助。

TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, your conversational skills will be as important as any other.

2.      你所選擇的結婚對象，一定是你喜歡向他傾訴，而他也樂於傾聽的人，當你倆牽手唱白髮吟的時候，你倆真誠相知的對談技巧的重要性已超過其他因素。

THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

3.      不要全盤相信所有你聽到的事，但善用你所擁有的全部資源，捨棄你所缺乏的需求。

FOUR.. When you say, 'I love you,' mean it.

4.      無論你是出於真心，或是善意的謊言，當你說：「我愛你」的時候，你就該決定不要口是心非了，現在可以不要騙自己，讓「我愛你」不再是謊言。

FIVE. When you say, 'I'm sorry,' look the person in the eye.

5.      當你誠心誠意道歉時，不要怯懦，要看著對方的眼睛說對不起，好讓你倆之間的心結徹底冰釋。你可知許多罹癌因子來自親人的心結？

SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

6.      訂婚至少 6 個月後，再結婚。

SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.

7.      相信「愛」就是一見鍾情。

EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who don't have dreams don't have much.

8.      不要譏笑別人的夢想，靈性貧乏、生命枯竭的人才沒有夢想。

NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

9.      愛到深處無怨尤？幾乎無人能達到這境界，多情自古空餘恨！為愛受傷是人生必經之路，也建構完整的人生。

TEN.. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name calling.

10.  意見分歧時，可以據理力爭，不要牽涉到人格、背景等做人身攻擊。

ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.

11.  不要從人的親戚來論斷他。

TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.

12.  不要浪費時間胡思亂想，但說出口的話，要慢條斯理，字字斟酌。

THIRTEEN . When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, 'Why do you want to know?'

13.  遇到你不想回答的問題，可以微笑反問：為甚麼你要知道這些事？

FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

14.  有個真理是：世人讚揚偉大的愛和傲視群雄的成就，都經歷過危機、患難和險境的考驗。

FIFTEEN. Say 'bless you' when you hear someone sneeze.

15.  有人打噴嚏時，要對他說：長命百歲！

(打噴嚏是把寒氣排出來，少了傷害當然更健康，別吃藥，會增加肝臟負擔！)

SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.

16.  失敗以後，別忘記這次失敗的教訓；未曾失敗的人就是少上這一課，他將會面臨難以承受的失敗！

SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self; Respect for others; and Responsibility for all your actions.

17.  記住三個 R：肯定自己；尊重他人；對自己的所作所為負全責。

EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

18.  不要讓一時的爭辯破壞長久的友誼。

NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

19.  一旦發現錯誤，應立刻進行更正措施。

TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.

20.  接電話時要微笑，對方可以從你的聲音聽到你的微笑！

TWENTY- ONE. Spend some time alone. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.

21.  花點時間獨處，你會發現：真正的朋友牽你手的時候，就摸到你的心。

Do not keep this message.

Anthony Robbins ↓