維持家屬互動正面關係的建言

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15 Ways To Keep A Relationship Working (advice) 

1. Love each other (愛是出發點.)
2. Don't lie(實話是基礎) 
3. Keep communication open(當眾傳達意見.) 
4. Stay sweet (面帶和善.)
5. When you get hurt just forgive and forget (原諒’忘記苦   果.)
6. Never talk about break-ups(終點沒出口.) 
7. Never say it's okay even when it's not (鄉愿德之賊.)
8. Forget about "pride" (真誠謙卑)
9. If you say sorry mean it(誠懇致歉.) 
10. Don't compare your past with your present (風水轉動,文法時態比較才有意義.)
11. Don't talk about your stupid ex's (理性;不出損人不利己之言)
12. Give and take process (誠懇的謀定才動.)
13. Beware of his/her feelings(察言觀色互動.) 
14. When you had a fight, don't let the day pass (即時反省爭執.)
15. Don't be the perfect one, be the right one.(做完整的正確.)

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