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| 2008/12/04 10:47:51瀏覽391｜回應1｜推薦9 | |
| Hi, NiuNiu YiYi just told me that one of her friend asked help to her about Chinese homework. She looked and refused. She told her friend, I do not know that kind of Chinese, I learn traditional not simplified. Her friend said, you are no use. YiYi laugh and said, yes, I am no use, so I could not help you, then she went away. I think nobody can hurt her, but I was thinking about you after she told me this fact. If someone said that, "you are no use." to you, you probably feel very uncomfortable for a while. Do you know why? Why you are so easy to get hurt? There are many causes, but I know one of it is, you can't face yourself. Do you remember I told you before, "知之為知之, 不知為不知, 是知也"? You all know each single character but you need to think it over and over. We all know you are very young, lacking of life experience. You will feel very embarrassed if someone asked you anything you did not know; you also feel uncomfortable if someone criticized you. As mom's experiences, there are so many difficulties, accidence,test ....came suddenly to you, you could not have any time to "be well prepared" to face it. Most of time, I failed, but I learnt. You know, lots of "experiences" I got them from unhappy memories. Nobody can be well prepared always, waiting for the tests. The only thing you need to do for yourself is learning and thinking. I believe you will accumulate your own experience and knowledge. Don't need to be embossed when you need to say, I don't know. And it is also not necessary to feel said to let someone learn you don't know something. When you know how to honest to yourself anytime, then you are successful, and I know you will be more confident and happier. I am very happy that you all like my soup and cookies. And tonight we pray together is a wonderful thing, thank you, kiss good night. Love~~~ Mom |
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