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Strawberry scone served with hot tea ~ what a great combination


引用文章:憂鬱的疱疹青春與其他

Dear Bagel and Mayo,

Daddy is writing this article to you to help you choose friends and deal with peer pressure in your teens.

While Daddy was looking for good examples and eating scone on an airplane to the UK, Daddy found that strawberry scone with hot tea was a great combination for story telling. Therefore, Daddy decided to share some of Uncle Scone's personal stories with you. Of course, I got his permission, as being respectful to the copyright, to do so first.

When Uncle Scone was in 4th grade, one of his classmates was a quiet boy who always read classical novels beyond his age level. When they needed to dissect a frog in biology class, the quiet boy cried for the frog while the rest of the class eagerly cut through the frog. Because of his unique qualities, Uncle Scone and other classmates always made fun of him.

What those naughty boys did not know was that the quiet boy's mother was a writer and he had read numerous classic books under his mother's guidance. The quiet boy was actually more mature in both academic and emotional development than those naughty ones.

Daddy would like you to know that there are two kinds of people in the world. One is those who are brave enough to be different, the other is those who want to be the same with everybody. The path is more difficult for the first kind of people, but they are the ones who can lead and influence people.

Is it safe to be just like everyone else? Well, let me tell you another story from Uncle Scone.

When Uncle Scone was in junior high, he had rashes around his mouth. Guess what? Bad karma came back and kicked him in the butt. Some naughty classmates call him "herpes" and laughed at him. He finally understood how the quiet boy in his 4th grade class felt.

Uncle Scone was miserable and tried to be part of the popular group in class. After several failed attempts, he became a quiet boy himself.

One day, the leader of the popular group decided to steal toys from a store. Some of the boys hesitated because they knew it was wrong. But they didn't want to leave the group, so they did it anyway. As a result, 15 people were caught and sent to police station.

Suddenly, Uncle Scone felt lucky that he was not part of the popular group. He realized that it was dangerous if you followed the crowd simply because you wanted to be part of the group.

We cannot live without friends. But, having bad friends is actually worse than having no friends.

If someone gave you drugs and told you that you had to take it to be his or her friend. Would you do it? Or, will you be brave enough to decline the temptation? Daddy hopes that Mommy and I have taught you well and you will choose to be brave. Remember, a real friend will respect you and accept your differences.

Teenage is a very difficult phase to go through. You think you are old enough to make your own decisions, but, at the same time, you are torn to bend yourself just to fit the concept of popular mold. When you stop trying so hard, you might find that there are a lot of people who care about you and want to be your friends based on who you are instead of whether you are popular or not.

Last but not least, please learn Chinese so that you can read Uncle Scone's original article. Daddy's English is not good enough to express the points well, and Mommy always complains when she has to type and change grammatical errors for Daddy.

Love,

Daddy & Mommy

 

(以上,由 睡美猴 擬稿,小龍包 改文法兼碎碎唸, 睡美猴 加油添醋並重新編譯,小貝果與美乃滋 敲鑼打鼓希望引起爹地媽咪注意,一家子熱鬧滾滾合力完成。)

 

 

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2008/11/26 23:05 【女性健康內在革命ㄉ討論區】 Uncle Scone

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虎麟盼政客們以蒼生為念
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中華之光 ~
2008/12/29 00:49

身在海外 ~

如此用心於下一代   真是中華之光 ~

致敬 ~ ~

Monkeyboy(Monkeyboy) 於 2009-01-05 19:46 回覆:
虎麟兄過獎,猴兒和小龍包僅盡本份而已,謝謝並歡迎來訪。

黃彥琳~~半夜訪客
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青少年的同儕壓力
2008/12/10 06:00

青少年的交友很重要,

交到壞朋友,恐怕就近墨者黑了。

monkeyboy何不帶孩子上教會?

在教會長大的孩子,

從小被教導﹕「跟隨天父的腳步走,而不是跟著世俗」

孩子們都曉得﹕

應該以神的眼光看世界,

不要在乎同伴怎麼看我。

當父母不在身邊時,

他們會知道……「神在看著我,不能做壞事」


Monkeyboy(Monkeyboy) 於 2008-12-12 14:42 回覆:

猴兒還是希望孩子能培養獨立思考的能力。

像古代有位「哥白尼」先生,只因提出「地圓說」,被教會攻擊得很慘。

幸虧他有所堅持,要不然到今天世界還是平的。

Monkeyboy(Monkeyboy) 於 2008-12-21 23:08 回覆:
並非否定您的建議,猴兒的重點是「有時大家認為對的事,並不見得真的是對的」。

珍妮曾在西雅圖
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用心的父母
2008/12/01 10:15

你家的女兒一定能體會到你們的苦心。

不過讀了 Scone 這個字,讓我不知不覺肚子也餓了...


Monkeyboy(Monkeyboy) 於 2008-12-12 14:43 回覆:
Thanks

■♀醫楊曉萍
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恕我無知
2008/11/26 17:08

左思右想還是不懂

Uncle scone為什麼 = 司空

哈哈.....走筆至此, 忽然通了


Monkeyboy(Monkeyboy) 於 2008-11-27 15:21 回覆:
謝謝 長今 來訪與留言。

123酷媽
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你不要嚇偶
2008/11/25 11:20
哇哩咧
寫醬給女兒讀
你家養了兩個天才兒童?
早知把偶家三隻貓貓送去給你們教.......

Monkeyboy(Monkeyboy) 於 2008-11-25 13:23 回覆:

給十五年後的女兒讀的,要是她們不認得中文的話...

(呵呵,這句子好像英文的「倒裝句型」...)


提琴
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真巧妙
2008/11/20 16:32
莞爾一笑﹐司空兩字翻得可真巧妙
Monkeyboy(Monkeyboy) 於 2008-11-22 03:36 回覆:
Thanks 

中等生
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文章好, 那份甜點更好
2008/11/20 11:18
文章好, 那份甜點更好
Monkeyboy(Monkeyboy) 於 2008-11-22 03:39 回覆:
文章可以流傳,甜點卻不能久存,只好吃光光。


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Good Job!
2008/11/20 02:35

有時,「面對孤獨」也是人生重要課題,這能幫我們認識自己。

謝謝 Monkeyboy 串聯 March of Dimes 活動。

 

Monkeyboy(Monkeyboy) 於 2008-11-22 03:25 回覆:
謝謝來訪,舉手之勞,不客氣。


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情深意切
2008/11/19 18:38

猴兒一家合作改寫出來的英文版實在比Uncle Scone的原文更感人,也清晰明瞭。好得讓Uncle Scone都說不出話來了。

Bagel 和 Mayo 一定要明白父母的苦心,每句話都要聽進去。中文一定要學,但二十歲之前不要讀 Uncle Scone 的文章,因為部份內容有礙身心健康。


Monkeyboy(Monkeyboy) 於 2008-11-22 03:29 回覆:

原文敘事風趣詳盡,英文只能重點表達,方式不同。

還是深深感謝 Uncle Scone 犧牲自我,造福群眾的義舉。


筱棻
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^^
2008/11/19 14:47
那雲海的相片好美喔
*媽媽的守護者*
Monkeyboy(Monkeyboy) 於 2008-11-22 03:32 回覆:
陽光從雲層中射出光芒,灑在雲端,已非猴兒相機所能表達。
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