I always enjoy the concept of the quote, “Watch your thoughts, for they become words. Watch your words, for they become actions.Watch your actions, for they become habits.Watch your habits, for they become character.Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”
Those who listen to the advice of the fortunetellers are the people who believe in " chances" instead of " choices".
To be honest, I used to wonder either choices or chances determine people's destiny, but now I think I am sure it is " choice", not " chance" that determines my destiny.
Whenever I have the confidence to make decisions, I will come out to be stronger ---whatever I choose, whatever choices I make due to the reason that I am not a passive onlooker; instead, I am an active participant in life.
Destiny can be created and enjoyed as the wonderland in Disney.