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2012/07/28 21:49:27瀏覽404|回應1|推薦5
I am very enjoy free moment without kids around for a short period.

The house are so clean and quite without them, the only thing I have to do is to take care their pet, even I don't like the pet at all.

My daugher said they she doesn't know that I have friends in Taiwan.
that's becasue every time I went back to Taiwan, my in laws don't let me go outside to meet my friends, they keep everyone in the house like in a Jail.

They don't like to go outside, so they won't let you go outside either. so both my kids don't like to visit in Taiwan at all. Because they only stay in the house, not see any interesting points in Taiwan.

I always feel people should let go even you are worry a lot about kids, but they have their own life, why you want to control eveything for them.
You do whatever you can do for them, the rest of them will be God's mesage, God will lead them to forever road. Ame!
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let go
2012/07/29 02:04

完全同意你的看法﹐ 孩子成長期﹐ 我們可以管教﹐帶領他們到正確方向﹐一旦成長﹐ 就必須離手﹐ 只能為他們禱告﹐ 讓神來繼續引導他們。

我覺得台灣上一輩的父母多半太無法放手﹐ 不放心﹐ 也一直要‘掌控’﹐ 所以常會造成兩代的衝突﹐ 因為空間太狹窄﹐ 讓雙方都可能窒息。那是不健康的。

我也喜歡這樣偷得浮生半日閑的光景。 家事都作好(或是沒作好﹐ 但也不怎麼在意)﹐ 然後悠閑的享受那無所事事的情況。