已近秋末冬初, 秋天的詩情畫意讓人戀愛的情愫加溫, 縱使全世界都陷於金融風暴陰影的竉罩之下. 然而, 柴米油鹽醬醋茶, 人的七情六慾一樣每天都需要也會發生. 讀了格友 瓊瑩 與 vfnp moon&stars 的文章, 仍然感受到, 有一種話題永遠不嫌少? 那就是 [愛], [愛] 是所有生命活力與靈魂出口的來源. 

最近一位好友戀愛了, 在我給他的信中, 我是這樣回覆的: 

戀愛就是這樣的感覺! 你有沒有想過, 你們是互為鏡子. 若是你很想念她但是只有心裡想, 在行動上冷冷的. 那她就感受不到妳對他的情愫. 若她是你已確定的 [心上人], 實在不需拘泥於表面上自以是的自尊型式. 你是男人, 要表現主動一點. 受到拒絕又有何關係呢? 不冒險那來的興奮呢? 拒絕心靈的召換 就如死水般停滯. 

要成為[愛], 你必需恆常的散發 [愛 ]

To become it is to emanate it in all ways; 

要找到[愛], 你必需經歷那不屬於[愛]的事物

To find it you must go through all that LOVE is not;

要表達[愛], 你必需經歷沒有[愛] 的痛苦

To express it you must find the pain of being without it.

因此, 你必需無條件的[愛]自己..無條件的[愛]別人

So you must LOVE yu as you are

and you must LOVE others as they are

and what they are becoming

如此, 讓喜悅充滿你的存在, 當 [愛]取代了恐懼, 你的心就會全然的信任..那你就會用自由的心去戀愛.. 對方也會回應一樣的鏡子給你. 

因為無懼所以心自由, 心自由..自然而然.. 吸引到的另一伴侶也一樣會是自由的心, 兩個自由的心在一起..靈魂反而是合一. 

這樣的愛與情, 不是可以談得很美嗎? 

祝福你和她 !

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下文摘自

遵循你內心真實的喜悅。 

Follow your bliss。

英雄式的生活就是

「個人」冒險的生活。 

The heroic life is

living the individual adventure.

遵循冒險的召喚

不會是風平浪靜的。 

There is no security

in following the call to adventure.

拒絕心靈的召喚就

如死水般停滯。 

To refuse the call

means stagnation.

凡是不能正面經驗到的事物

你將負面地經驗到它。 

What you don't experience positively

you will experience negatively.

凡是有道路之處

是別人的道路。

你不是走在自己的道路上。 

Where there is a way or path,

it is someone else's path.

You are not on your own path.

若遵循別人的道路，

你便無法體認到

自己的潛能。 

If you follow someone else's way,

you are not going to realize

your potential.

你跌倒的地方，

正是你的寶藏所在。 

Where you stumble,

there lies your treasure.

你找到寶藏，

它卻把你拖垮。 

You find the jewel,

and it draws you off.

在喜愛靈性生活的同時，

你不能輕視世俗的事物。 

In loving the spiritual,

you cannot despise the earthly.

人生旅程的目的

在於慈悲。 

The purpose of the journey

is compassion.

當你超越了

各式各樣的對立

你便達到慈悲的境界。 

When you have come past

the pairs of opposites,

you have reached compassion.

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Glenn Medeiros 

Nothing’s Gonna Change My Love For You

對你的愛永遠不變

If I had to live my life without you near me
The days would all be empty
The nights would seem so long
And with you I see forever oh so clearly
I might have been in love before
But it never felt this strong
Our dreams are young and we both know
They'll take us where we want to go
Hold me now, touch me now
I don't want to live without you

*Nothing's gonna change my love for you
You ought to know by now how much I love you
One thing you can be sure of
I'll never ask for more than your love
Nothing's gonna change my love for you
You ought to know by now how much I love you
You'll only change my whole life through
Nothing's gonna change my love for you

If the road ahead is not so easy
Our love will lead a way for us
Like a guiding star
I'll be there for you if you should need me
You don't have to change a thing
I love you just the way you are
So come with me and share the view
I'll help you see forever too
Hold me now, touch me now
I don't want to live without you

如果我必須沒有你而活下去
日子將會是一片空白
夜晚將顯得漫長
有了你，我清楚的看見永恆
從前我也曾談戀愛
但不曾感覺這麼強烈
我倆的夢未央，且我們都明白
它們將帶我倆到心嚮往的地方
擁抱我，觸摸我
我不想沒有你而活下去

對你的愛永遠不變
現在，你應該明白我有多麼愛你
有一件事你可以確定
我絕不要求你更多的愛
對你的愛永遠不變
如今，你應該明白我有多麼愛你
你改變了我的一生
對你的愛永不渝

如果前方的路不好走
愛將為我們指引一條出路
像一顆導航的星
若你需要我，我就在你身旁
你不必改變什麼
我就是愛你現在的樣子
跟我來，分享這個景致