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The first step is to discuss with your partner the idea of incorporating adult toys into your relationship. You may have used sex toys for your own personal use in the past and may feel some skepticism and concern about how your partner will react to the idea of using sex toys, but that is not the case! My motto is that if you don't ask not to accept it, you may find that they accept the idea and can start looking for adult toys together. If they don't, then you can always suggest starting with a small finger vibrator or some very light bondage, but remember to explain to your partner that toys are a way to add a little fun to the relationship and don't become a relationship. Replace your partner.
Many people will be embarrassed to enter a sex store and will not ask the staff for help or advice. Therefore, online adult sex stores are perfect for searching for adult toys together in complete discretion and privacy. A good starting point is to find sex toys that you or your partner will not be afraid to buy, such as finger vibrators, so that you can use larger adult toys.
Once you both feel more comfortable using adult toys together, then you can experiment with more exotic adult toys such as bunny vibrators, flesh toys and anal beads. Note that some lubricant may need to be added at the time of purchase to stop any unpleasant rubbing.
When using toys for the first time, make sure you use them gently to find what your partner likes best before hitting a notch, and remember to always talk to your partner while using the toy as this helps build communication in the relationship and you will find ways to push your partner's buttons.
As you try different toys, you can decide which one is best for you. As you become more experienced, you will gain enough trust in each other that buying adult toys as gifts will add a whole new level of fun to your relationship in and out of the bedroom.
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