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孤獨,是最沉重的疾病
Loneliness is the greatest disease
許多人將養老院想像成衣食與醫療的供給站,然而經過歲月淬煉才懂,最深的困境從不在於身體的衰敗,而在於靈魂的荒寒 —— 那是一種被世界靜默遺忘的孤獨。
![]() 在這裡,有人已數月乃至數年未曾等來一位訪客。子女奔忙於自己的生活,舊友漸次零落。即使最專業的照護團隊,也無法取代親人指尖的溫度與眼底的星光。
衰老最鋒利的一面,是察覺自己已悄悄停留在時光的岸畔,徒然遙望著人世洪流繼續奔湧向前,卻再也力無舟楫相渡。
![]() 哲人帕斯卡曾說:「人類所有的問題,都源自於無法安靜的獨處。」但老年孤獨並非選擇之靜默,而是被迫的放逐。它如藤蔓般無聲纏繞,比任何衰竭更令人窒息。
孤獨是無聲的疾病,而情感才是唯一的解藥。多希望年輕時能少追逐轉瞬即逝的泡沫,多編織永恆的情感紐帶;少在虛幻的成就中迷失,多在溫厚的關係裡紮根。
![]() 因為,生命底色的豐饒不在累積多少資產,而在經營多少能穿透時間的情誼,以及靈魂深處的豐盛。
那看似平常的午後茶敘、深夜長談,實則是抵禦歲月的堡壘。若早知孤獨是生命最後的必修課,我願以更多真心與耐心預付學費。
![]() 健康,是生命終極的財富
Health is more valuable than wealth
我曾遇見一位老者,他的過去彷彿被鑲著金邊:數處豪宅名車,足跡遍及五洲。
如今他蜷縮於鬥室,如同被封印的雕塑── 財富仍在,卻已無法自主進食,不能站立行走。財富此刻變得毫無意義,因為當身體背叛意志,金錢便成為冷漠的象徵。
![]() 他的眼中常會閃過一道光芒,那是曾經的銳利與驕傲,但轉瞬即逝。這不是病痛的折磨,而是尊嚴的消褪。護工細心照顧的一舉一動,似乎都在無聲地訴說著:
生命中最寶貴的,不是曾經或現在擁有什麼,而是能夠自主地做什麼。
過去日子的分分秒秒,我們精心計算資產的複利,卻忽略身體這個最精密的資本正悄悄透支。健康不是人生的一部分,而是使所有部分成為可能的整體。
![]() 如果時間可以重來,我會把運動視為對未來的投資,把健康視為對生命的尊重。
真正的富裕不是選擇生活的權利,而是體驗生活的能力 - 能夠自己繫鞋帶,能品味食物的滋味,能在陽光下自由行走。
![]() 所有物質財富終將歸還時間。最奢侈的不是擁有多少,而是能完整、有尊嚴地享受每個平凡的日子。
Moonlight Shadow Dana Winner
The last that ever she saw him
Carried away by a moonlight shadow He passed on worried and warning Carried away by a moonlight shadow Lost in a riddle last Saturday night Far away on the other side He was caught in the middle of a desperate fight And she couldnt find how to push through The trees that whisper in the evening Carried away by a moonlight shadow Sing a song of sorrow and grieving Carried away by a moonlight shadow All she saw was a silhouette of a gun Far away on the other side He was shot six times by a man on the run And she couldnt find how to push through I stay, I pray See you in heaven far away I stay, I pray See you in heaven one day Four a.m. in the morning Carried away by a moonlight shadow I watched your vision forming Carried away by a moonlight shadow Star was glowing in a silvery night Far away on the other side Will you come to talk to me this night ? But she couldnt find how to push through I stay, I pray See you in heaven far away I stay, I pray See you in heaven one day Caught in the middle of a hundred and five The night was heavy but the air was alive But she couldnt find how to push through Far away on the other side The night was heavy but the air was alive But she couldnt find how to push through But she couldnt find how to push through How to push through How to push through How to push through How to push through How to push through |
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