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2006/03/30 17:56:48瀏覽204|回應5|推薦12

Someone warned me that: "The more opinions you show, the more
vulnerable you are." at my first job.

At that time, I was puzzled by the how he meant by saying "warning".
"If you don't show people your opinions, how do you know whether
your opinions are correct or not?" I was wondering, and that was
like 15 years ago. It was a fact that we are putting ourselves in the
harm's way by telling people what you think, but should we not doing
that?

Now, after all these years, I still love to share my opinions.
Even doing so does put me on a more vulnerable position, but, it is
how I am, what I do. At least for now, I know what I think is right, and
what is wrong.

A person's vulnerability may be contributing to the team's ultimate
success.
No matter what, it is worthy of, at least for me, really!

In the work place, there are these people trying to play smart guys,
but actually they are draining your emotional and psychological well-being.
It is better to learn how
those people's brains work, and how to best defense yourself, if
necessary.

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2006/04/02 18:00
好喜歡您回的:

Opinions 與 Sugestions

說話的技巧問題,

提出自己意見, 是與人溝通的管道, 但太強的意見, 就會變成建議, 太強的建議, 便會具有很大的攻擊性!

似乎太多人搞不清楚 意見與建議?

捏捏懂吃 更懂作人!

記著了 下次我作東 您說教!

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Opinions 與 Sugestions
2006/04/01 14:57

說話的技巧問題,

提出自己意見, 是與人溝通的管道, 但太強的意見, 就會變成建議, 太強的建議, 便會具有很大的攻擊性!



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2006/03/31 08:56

A person's vulnerability may be contributing to the team's ultimate
success.

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Yes. 不僅僅是opinions, 甚至是knowledge.

這是一個競爭的社會, 尤其是職場, 太多人會"留一手".

有誰會無保留的提供建議,分享他的經驗? 

但是,這也是個團體運作的社會,如果真有人願意無私心的提供意見和知識,這個team會很強.

(這是我的個人心得喔, 我有幸得到一位 "良師益友" ,他就是這種無保留傳承知見的人, 令我敬佩不已, 因為很難得遇到這種人)



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人之患在好為人師嗎?
2006/03/31 08:39

        雖然古書有云:人之患在好為人師。然而人生過程中,若少了這些好事者,可能會有更多的不測出現。

        只要不太自以為是,我也喜歡給人提供意見,出餿主意呢!


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Opinions
2006/03/31 03:36

Well, i agree with u. can't see why we should be afraid of making opinions. if someone wants to attack you, they can do so even when you remain silent. everyone deserves a voice, and to be heard. if you believe in what you say, there's no one who can shake your stance, or try to twist your word.

yes, voicing out is more about sharing ideas, and trying to get some synergy out of it. :)