If you hate a person, you hate something in him that is part of yourself. What isn't part of ourselves doesn't disturb us.

若你會恨一個人

那是因為你恨他居然具有原來就在你自己身上的那個你所討厭的特質一樣

如果我們自己原來就不具備那些討厭的特質

那些特質也就煩不到我們了