夫妻之間的新橋樑 - 茱莉小太陽

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夫妻之間的新橋樑

2011/07/02 01:16:43瀏覽389｜回應2｜推薦9

常聽一個朋友提到跟老公一天24小時說不到一句話,相信這是很多夫妻之間的共同問題.

事實上我和外子都不是話多的人.尤其是外子受不了七嘴八舌的人,所幸我的個性也比較內向,話匣子打開也沒多少話.所以我們其實一天24小時扣掉睡覺和上班的時間之外,我們聊天的時間也不多.

或許是個性,或許是工作性質,我們之間的交流反倒是透過臉書.外子三步五時就會傳一些好笑的圖片或是我會感興趣的文章到我的臉書上,很多時候因此我們的話題就聊開了,反而聊的內容更廣泛.

曾有朋友對我說過怎麼忍受老公下了班還坐在電腦前面.我想一方面是我也習慣了他這樣的生活方式,另一方面我也可以做我自己想要做的事,像是跟我的寵物鼠玩玩,看看書,玩玩電動玩具,我們兩個就過著自由自在沒人管的日子.

每對夫妻的生活模式都因其個性不同而有不同的結果,我們在一起算起來也有六年了,但是已有老夫老妻的感覺,是喜還是憂呢?婚姻生活的經營靠的是智慧,管它是喜還是憂,重要的是好好用心用感情經營下去,其它的就隨緣吧!

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動物收容所修剪7歲半男孩,他的貓的皮毛,除了貓的臉和四個小腿,他的臉,我發誓,顯得那麼懊惱,沮喪,滑稽的
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My apologize for my misreading from Julie to Molly.Thanks for your sharing of animal shelter


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21 Centry way to communicate for couples

2011/07/09 02:07

Hi Molly,

It's the way to keep the marriage, as long as you guys enjoy the life, why not.

I believe you guys are younger gernation, so using face book.

Some couples are using email during the day time, it's the way how people have their own way, as long as you guys can used to each other life style, and have some fun, I guess there is no certain pattern how to communicate, right ?

If you can, please post some jokes as your blog articles. I think readers also like to enjoy the jokes. Thanks for sharing.

Blessing.

茱莉小太陽(julie1973) 於 2011-07-09 12:53 回覆：

Hey V J,

I'm not sure if you post your comment to my wall by accident, since my name is not Molly.

Anyhow, thanks for your comments. I don't consider myself or my hubby as "younger generations" but certainly there are something that we both enjoy doing by using computers. I guess in this case, once you know the how to, you become sort of addict to it.

Speaking of jokes, I think so far I only posted one. In many cases, picture speaks louder than words. Why is that you might wonder; I was in the animal shelter the other day (I do volunteer works there), this 7 and a half years old male domestic cat had his fur trimmed except for his face and four lower legs. You should have seen his face, I swear he looked so upset and depressed at the same time he looked so funny. I'm sure there is a reason behind this, but if only I had my iPhone with me, I would take a pic. He was not only an upset cat but also an obese one.

Oops, I guess I got carried away. Anyway, thanks for checking out my articles and the suggestions.

Have a good one!
Julie