日本小說家村上春樹曾說 : 「世界上存在著不能流淚的悲傷 , 這種悲傷無法向人解釋 , 它永遠一成不變 , 如無風夜晚的雪花 , 靜靜的沉積在心裡 , 當你雖不認同 , 卻只能無奈地屈服 , 當你不滿於現狀 , 卻又看不清岀路 , 當你充滿憂慮 , 卻又無力改變 , 當焦慮變成了每一個異鄉人的家常便飯 , 我們又該如何去完成這一堂人生的必修課?」

的確 , 生活中有許多事情只能無奈地屈服 , 如那些在焦慮中度過的不眠之夜  , 那種求而不得的遺憾和唏噓  , 那份不可言說的懊惱和悲傷 , 有時候我不禁想問 , 那些犧牲了時間、 健康和快樂的人 , 真的換來了他們想要的嗎? 我不知道 , 但如果沒有的話 ,  還是多愛自己一點吧 , 那怕只有那麼 一點。

我個人認為 , 在生活中最需要的應該是安全感吧 ,但安全感是甚麼 ? 是你努力為自己築起的高高的圍牆 ? 是無論多晚回家都為你亮著的那盞燈 ? 還是銀行卡上那一串緩慢增長的數字呢? 我覺得都不是  , 安全感應該是一種相信 ,  相信自己 , 有抵禦任何風浪的能力 , 歸根結底 ,是要相信所謂的安全感 , 只有自己能給自己。

我們都喜歡執著於過去 , 例如 : 可能永遠也不會穿的衣服 , 佔著電腦空間卻捨不得刪掉的老照片 , 還有偶爾會在無眠的夜裡想起曾經的戀人 , 對過去美好時光的留戀 ,  但過去畢竟已經過去了 , 我們都應該試著學會告別 , 往前走吧 , 勇敢一點。

接下來請欣賞我唱的《You Made Me Live Again 》你讓我重生

I was down and out and feeling so low

You took my hand and eased my mind

I was astray you showed me the way

And now I finally found my home in you

I still recall the times Ive been through

Confused and didnt know what to do

I almost gave up but you gave me hope

Youve made me strong as the days went on

You made me live again

I was lost in the dark

With my lonely, broken heart

Then you came along

You took me home

And made me your own

You were always there to lend a helping hand

When good friends were hard to find

When things went wrong you made them right

Youve made my days so bright

You made me live again

I was lost in the dark

With my lonely, broken heart

Then you came along

You took me home

And made me your own

Now look at me

Yes, a different me

Back on my feet again

Im not afraid to face the world again

Cause you taught me how to be strong

You made me live again

You made me live again