Help Please! My written Chinese is not good, can someone please help my father in translation into Chinese. He is mentally ill and can’t seem to understand what I have been trying to tell him.

Dad,

I appreciate your offer. However, I can not come see you if I know you will continue to hurt the rest of our family. I heard from your friend that you have problem with gambling and lost all your inheritance money from grandmother through gambling. And your friend had to help you to pay rent so you can stay at the same place you are living now. I don’t want to add more burden to you right now. Instead, I rather you would concentrate on working harder and making your life better so I can come see you when you have found peace within yourself and stop blaming other people for all the things that happened to you. I meant it when I said I want to help and still do, so I am asking you to stop while we still have a chance to be a family. But in order for that to happen, you need to stop your lies before all your children lose faith in you.   

Derrick,