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良心 與 狼心 (人性探討 一)
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唉! 為什麼好人總是在做牛做馬, 而小人終日盡吃香喝辣?

其實這其中道理很簡單.

好人有榮譽心, 責任感, 任勞任怨, 且常為顧全大局, 而把個人利益得失置其次.

小人恰恰相反. 凡事斤斤計較, 四處偷雞摸狗.

當好人像綿羊般, 默默在替小人收爛攤, 擦XX時, 小人則忙於拍馬X, 作關係.

當事情順利告成, 小人一馬當先, 把功勞全都一網打盡, 如事情出了差錯, 小人一走了之, 將責任卸的一絲不掛.

所以小人常常踩在好人背上, 步步高昇. 當小人得志時, 好人千萬別心存幻想, 小人會反餔回報. 小人能不反咬, 或不抱怨好人背骨太硬 (backbone, 本狼毒創三關語), 將其腳底踩痛, 就該慶幸偷笑.

小人一但得志, 其手下一定雞犬不寧, 日子難過. 因小人不學無術, 剛愎自用, 常外行領導內行. 要不就沒事踹好人一腳, 以提醒好人現今誰在當家做主.

難怪 笨狡獸分身 空腦夫子 常歎道:"惟驢子與小人難養也!" (註)

好人最要注意的是要遠小人, 尤其是自己周遭的近親好友. 因為他們往往對好人 "殺最大." 西洋歌曲有一首精典名作 "You Always Hurt The One You Love" 正是此意.

也可見此理中外所見略同. 冀望小人變好人, 真比白日見活鬼還難. 因根據心理學開山大師 佛洛里德 (Sigmund Freud) 理論, 人格基本原型 (personality prototype) 大約在四歲左右即定型.

人間雖常有不公不義, 但上天永遠是公義的! 惟願好人終有好報, 並澤及子孫. 小人現世就報, 且不得好活.

註: 驢子指笨人也. 驢子也難養是因糊塗還有藥救, 笨就是一輩子 (Foolishness can be cured, but stupidity is forever.) 但笨人因係天生, 又最容易成為小人欺壓對象, 故值得好人同情保護.

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2014/08/23 10:35

笨腳獸:

您的文章很有意思~得意有時候看似無俚頭的寫法

可是又有一些道理在想

瑀璇覺得天底下~唯小人跟女子 最難相處~

真的~深深感概中~烏雲飄過

但我覺得吃虧還是佔便宜~

好人的磁場力量 會綿綿不絕~

小人則否~同意嗎?

瑀璇也祝福您 假期愉快三太子做鬼臉

笨腳獸 (洗腥割面 重出江湖)(DrGaryTeng) 於 2014-08-24 01:42 回覆:
瑀璇,

衷心感謝 您對小作的捧場與鼓勵

您曰: ...看似無俚頭的寫法 可是又有一些道理在...
瞎眯?!
本狼可是句句皆
經世治國名言耶

是 您說的: 唯小人跟女子 最難相處...
本狼可無此狗膽

但本狼完全同意您說的: ...吃虧還是佔便宜~ 好人的磁場力量 會綿綿不絕~ 小人則否

也祝 您
健康愉快
萬事如意

☆珂玭☆
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Dr. Deng名言:好人總是在做牛做馬,而小人終日盡吃香喝辣。
2010/03/05 01:13
壞人比比皆是,好心不見得有好報盲目的善良,是愚蠢的笨蛋,這世間事充滿了不公平。唉,只能怪自己一廂情願妄想:能把壞人改造成好人。
笨腳獸 (洗腥割面 重出江湖)(DrGaryTeng) 於 2010-03-05 11:19 回覆:

Yes!  這世間是充滿了不公平.

但請 您別忘了本狼另一千古名言:  人間雖常有不公不義, 但上天永遠是公義的! 惟願好人終有好報, 並澤及子孫 ....


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young and naive
2010/01/24 23:01

這是年輕人才會斤斤計較的問題. When you get to the age of mine, being wise and mature,there is no issue about such.

I believe in God and God will take care of it for me if I became a victim.


笨腳獸 (洗腥割面 重出江湖)(DrGaryTeng) 於 2010-01-25 00:07 回覆:
謝謝 您的來訪與回應.
 
 I like what you stated that, ... I believe in God and God will take care of it for me if I became a victim.
 
We should always let God be our final judge.  God will provide aid and comfort to us when we are down and out, and God will right our wrongs.
 
May God bless your heart!!!

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人生~~~
2009/07/13 13:31


如果~上帝真的只有一個
而你有幸身為上帝
請問.....
面對成萬上億的眾生
你該怎麼做?
才不會有靡靡之音呢?

~~~相逢心語


笨腳獸 (洗腥割面 重出江湖)(DrGaryTeng) 於 2009-08-15 08:58 回覆:
感謝 您的回應 + 鼓勵喔!

深深祝福 您!

張鳳哈佛 哈佛問學錄 得首獎
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吃虧就是福
2009/07/09 21:22
“養眼”之中...只阿Q地說﹕吃虧就是福﹗賀喬遷完成﹗(﹖)


笨腳獸 (洗腥割面 重出江湖)(DrGaryTeng) 於 2009-07-10 02:00 回覆:

感謝 您的來訪與回應! 

I (technically) agree with what you said,  "吃虧就是福."  That's why I have been "就是吃虧" most of my life, but I haven't yet enjoyed the fruits "."      

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Triple Pun
2009/07/08 14:06
A very close friend asked a very tough question to me: Backbone, 本狼毒創三關語 ---> 哪三關? 

1. 背骨 itself is a metaphor which means a stepping stone.

The English translations of 背骨 can be either backbone (spine) or vertebra (脊椎骨.)

2. Backbone is also a very common English expression which symbolizes a firm and resolute character (i.e., 好人的風骨.)

3. Vertebra is extremely weak which implies that 小人 often misperceives 好人的榮譽心 and 責任感 as a sign of weakness and then takes advantages of.

I am deeply sorry to all of you for using such a complicate and far-fetched triple pun.

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2009/07/08 11:47

我覺得人的「心」是很重要的。如果所謂的「好人」與「小人」所追求的「目標」是一致的,好人當然看起來是處處吃虧。如果好人能同時看重「過程」與「目標」,或許好人的心中就能坦蕩了。

笨腳獸 (洗腥割面 重出江湖)(DrGaryTeng) 於 2009-07-08 14:03 回覆:

感謝 您的來訪與回應! 

You made an excellent point:  好人與小人所追求的目標 usually 是一致的.  The difference is in the process (過程 or 手段).  For example:  君子愛財, 取之有道. 貪財, 取之以盜.  This makes all the differences.

That is what you meant:  君子坦蕩蕩, 小人常戚戚. 

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但上天永遠是公義的?
2009/07/05 00:01

If you really believe what you wrote ===>>> "但上天永遠是公義的!", you don't need to worry about the rest of your article. Just keep your breath and watch how 上天的公義 would eventually develope.

So, the only question is: do you believe "上天永遠是公義的"?

:-)


謝謝你的來訪, 我為你又寫了下列文章, 請您來賜教批評:
笨腳獸 (洗腥割面 重出江湖)(DrGaryTeng) 於 2009-07-05 02:51 回覆:
感謝 您的來訪與回應!

First, I use the term "上天" in a generic fashion on purpose.

Religion and faith is a matter of personal belief. Since 上天 is 上天, and we are not, we can’t and should never try to figure out why everything happened the way they did.

I do personally believe that 上天 does exist and 上天永遠是公義的.

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嚇一跳
2009/07/04 06:15

小人恰恰相反

.........................

我不是小人啦

笨腳獸 (洗腥割面 重出江湖)(DrGaryTeng) 於 2009-07-04 10:33 回覆:

Dear 恰恰 姐,

感謝 的回應!

I truly enjoy your great sense of humor. 

I like your brand new cover page design (one of the kind) and I was (almost) fooled by your latest great piece【愛你入骨】.  I thought I was going to read another moving love story by you....

If there is ever a cover page contest, I will definitely vote for you with both of my hands and feet.

!