心與辛

記住 Anger（發怒）與 Danger（危險）只差一個字                                                                                   
                                                                                                                                                       別看少這一個字                                                                                                                                     
                                                                                                                                                      它會影響我們這份職業、甚至人際關係                                                                                                                 
                                                                                                                                                      正所謂「禍從口出…」                                                                                                                                
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          
 專家講：                                                                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                      「人，面對外人時，總是可以表現得雍容大肚、心平氣和，但面對自己最親近的家人，卻往往一點小事就足以皺起眉頭，甚至出言相傷。」                         
                                                                                                                                                     正如你永遠只對你最愛、最親的人生氣；你會對住你上司、老板生氣嗎？                                                                                   
                                                                                                                                                     如果形容人類是一種「出門高EQ，回家低EQ」的動物，我想一點兒也不誇張。多拿出一點耐心與包容給家人吧！否則您自己也不會快樂，不是嗎？                   
                                                                                                                                                      曾在報上看過：                                                                                                                                     
                                                                                                                                                      英文中的Stressed（壓力），與Desserts（甜點）兩字，有很微妙的相關。是什麼相關呢？                                                                   
                                                                                                                                                     仔細一瞧，好像沒什麼關係嘛！                                                                                                                       
                                                                                                                                                     可是，再看一下，咦？stressed這個字從後面倒過來拼寫，不就是desserts嗎？                                                                             
                                                                                                                                                     所以，「Stressed is just desserts if you can reverse.」（壓力就是甜點，只要你能逆向觀看。）                                                        
                                                                                                                                                     哈，這真是有趣的妙論呀！                                                                                                                            
                                                                                                                                                      人生之中，有許多「壓力、挫折」，但只要轉個念、換個角度看，它也就是我們生命中的「甜點」呀！                                                         
                                                                                                                                                     此外，也有人說：                                                                                                                       
                                                                                                                                                     「人生就像一碗飯，一半是甜的，一半是苦的，你不知道會先吃到哪一邊，但終究必須把飯吃完。」                                                           
                                                                                                                                                     是呀，生命有甜、有苦、有酸、也有辣；但都必須去經歷它、走過它呀！                                                                                   
 有一個小學老師在偏遠的鄉里教書，這天，他來到自己班上的教室，問班上的小朋友：「你們大家有沒有討厭的人啊？」                                         
                                                                                                                                                     小朋友們想了想，有的未作聲，有的則猛力地點點頭。                                                                                                   
                                                                                                                                                     老師接著便發給每人一個袋子，說：「我們來玩一個遊戲。現在大家想想看，過去這一週，曾有那些人得罪過你，他到底做了怎麼樣可惡的事？想到後，就利用放學時 間，到河邊去找一塊石頭，把他的名字給用小紙條貼在石頭上。如果他實在很過份，你就找一塊大一點的石頭，如果他的錯是小錯，你就找一塊小一點的石頭。每天把 戰利品，用袋子裝到學校來給老師看哦！」                                                                                                             
                                                                                                                                                     學生們感到非常有趣且新鮮，放學後，每個人都搶著到河邊去找石頭。                                                                                     
                                                                                                                                                     第二天一早，大家都把裝著從河邊撿來的鵝卵石的袋子帶到學校來，興高采烈地討論著。                                                             
                                                                                                                                                     一天過去了，兩天過去了，三天過去了…，有的人的袋子越裝越大，幾乎成了負擔。                                                                          
                                                                                                                                                     終於，有人提出了抗議：「老師，好累喔！」                                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                     老師笑了笑沒說話，立刻又有人接著喊：「對啊每天背著這些石頭來上課，好累喔！」                                                                       
                                                                                                                                                     這時，老師終於開口了，她笑著說：「那就放下這些代表著別人過犯的石頭吧！」                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                     孩子們有些訝異，老師又接著講：「學習寬恕別人的過犯，不要把它當寶一樣的記在心上，扛在肩上，時間久了，任誰也受不了…」                                
                                                                                                                                                     這個星期，這班的同學上到了人生中極寶貴的一課。袋裡裝入越多、越大的「石頭」，心中存留越多、越深的仇恨，所造成的負擔就越重。                         
                                                                                                                                                     假如你有寫上我名字的石頭，你應當知道該怎樣做了吧！                                                                                                 
                                                                                                                                                     我很喜歡一句名諺：「寬恕人的過失，便是自己的榮耀。」                                                                                               
                                                                                                                                                     懂得「放下」，何等自在。                                                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                     請不吝分享，或許今天正有人需要它！                                                                                                                 
                                                                                                                                                     相愛容易相處難，婚姻與戀愛最大的不同，就是「戀愛看的是對方的優點」，而「婚姻卻是要包容對方的缺點」。                                               
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                                                                                                                                                     緣份是找到包容你的人。                                                                                                                             
                                                                                                                                                     用心過好每一天．相信每天都是美好的一天；好運會降臨在樂觀開朗的人身上！