As the saying goes " The personity design his destiny" . We can get many proof during our history. An optimist can face any dilemma , and they can find solutions for them at least.  Furthermore , he/she usually arises from the  dead. On the other hand, a pessimist  alway loss their confidence , even he/she control the favorable situation , he/she still worries everything. In additon , he/she cannot make any desision because he/she thinks to bed side , so they , he/she failed.

We can find this situation in Eastern sociality before . Most of Eastern people are pessimists, so they cannot believe everyone including themselves , espeically their kids. They cannot believe themselves so they like to go to temples to ask God. In addition , they alwasy worry about everything , most of them have no adventure thinking , so they hope they can have very stable life and jobs. Furthermore , they have no courage to face anemies, when some villians rob their forture, they do not dare to resist.

More importantly , they cannot belive their children , they always to determine anything for them , even their kids are adults , they cannot let them to do anything by themselves to cause so  many tragedy.

Take my perents as an example . My elder had a girl friends 10 years ago , but my father did not like her because she was not arranged by him . My brother gave up this girls because he did not want my parents felt angry . Unforturnately , over the pass 10 years, he had no girlfriend .

In contrast , the Western people seem more optimism, they trust themselves even they are in plight. They agree their kids to make desision by themselves. The Western people like to innovate , so we can see most inventions are created by them.

Nowadays, the Western socities are stronger and richer than us , I believe the most important reason is this personity. Luckily, this situation is changed now, more Eastern people become more optimism than before , I feel we catch up is arround the corner. 

To be honest, I am an optimist. I always believe that I can solve anything , even I do not have the relational knowledge. I almost never scared something. For example, 10 years ago, there was a very serious earthquake . Most of us worried about it very much , but I told them  " it is the worst one while our life, after it , we can expect bloom coming." 

On the other hand , people cannot always be optimist forever, sometime we still have unsoloved problems and our emtion may beocome low even touch the trought. Auspiciously , I am an optimist, so I always face the problem courageously and think how I can do for them .

If you are a pessimist, maybe you have to change your intention, do not take unnecessary pains. To believe that you can process everything.