It's the life experience and the lesson/process was sweet even it ended up in a broken-up.  

On the second, it is said "You have to kiss a thousand toads before you find the right prince." in the western world.  I think it isn't an issue of how loud but what melody is - in tune or out of.  

Gibran wrote "Frogs sang a loud song but you can't send them to fight courageously nor use their skins to make shoes."  Yes, I agree with you - No matter low loud.   Green just means COOL ~~